I’m using complementary therapies to support my body post-surgery & need others to help me through the likelihood of chemo and radiation.
Palmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui
Hi, I'm Teresa. 44yr old Mama to 2 beautiful girls & wife to Andrew. I love life, my family, my friends, music, gardening & people. Late last year I was diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer.
I discovered a large lump in my left breast that wasn't there earlier in the day. A little surprised & concerned I headed to the doctor to get it checked out. A mammogram & ultrasound didn't show much so a biopsy was done.
As I watched the bus leave with my daughter & husband for a school camp one morning, my phone rang. It was a request to meet with the doctor that afternoon. My heart immediately sank, I knew it was bad. At the appointment I was told I had breast cancer, Grade 3 Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, Estrogen.
I was immediately referred to the surgical team, with the MRI & CT scan showing chemo was unlikely to shrink it. A mastectomy was needed due to the tumour's size, along with removing lymph nodes in my armpit.
On 20th Dec, my breast was removed via mastectomy. The tumour was 10.5cm wide & 6 of the 18 lymph nodes removed were cancerous (meaning high potential for spreading).
This journey is an emotional roller-coaster for everyone & is still unfolding. Telling my girls & Andrew that I have cancer was the hardest day of my life. Every day brings new emotions to process. My babies were aware something was happening from the first day the lump appeared & their cuddles mean everything. I planned to be here for their lives & now we're doing everything we can to make sure I am.
Teresa has touched many lives in the community through her role at Palmerston North Parents Centre as a Childbirth Educator, her post-birth discussion groups & music facilitation, amongst other things over the years.
The cost to support my journey could be substantial as some recommendations are not funded. I may not able to work or contribute to our household financially. I'd like to try a Naturopath, Dutch hormone testing, supplements, kinesthesiology, ozone therapy
Saying goodbye to 2024 31 December 2024
Wow what a year 2024 has been
It has been a rollercoaster all the way and now at the other end of treatment, everything that happened already feels like a distant memory.
There are so many reminders of what has happened, I am now sporting a far different hairstyle (the curls and springyness are next level), daily medication to keep me in menopause and subtle reminders of the many needles treatment brought.
I am so grateful to be on this side of diagnosis, the busy time has eased and I am finding life rhythm in the newness. I had my first of now annual mammograms at the end of November with the result showing no evidence of disease. Mammograms are limited in what they can see given the density of breast tissue so self -checking remains key and I am looking to do Thermography early-ish next year to give me some more piece of mind https://www.clinicalthermography.co.nz/
I have been asked a few times now, 'Are you in remission?' Remission isn't really a term well used for breast cancer, NED (no evidence of disease) is probably more appropriate for now. I need to get to 5 years post diagnosis with no reoccurrence before the word remission might be considered. I have 2 appmts next year with medical oncology to follow my progress and 1 more with radiation oncology before I will be referred back to the surgical team. It will be at least a year before reconstruction surgery is considered.
I am a cancer survivor living life, loving my family and 2025 is going to be amazing 🥰
Thank you so much Toni xxx
Much love to you and your whanau too! 🥰
Thank you so much Trace, this is so appreciated 🥰 Thank-you also to everyone who bought a hoodie, you guys all rock!!
Thank you Anna 🥰
Thank you so much to the team at the Ashhurst Library and the Ashhurst Community :)
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