Help us give Tim more time with his wife & three children. This page is fundraising for Tim's treatment overseas - in Spain or the USA.
Island Bay, Wellington
Tim has locally advanced pancreatic cancer (often referred to as stage 4): there's no cure & no further viable treatment in New Zealand. Tim’s been through chemo, then combined chemo & radiation. Surgery isn’t an option because the tumour is wrapped around major veins & blood vessels.
In September 2025, Tim & his family’s world was turned upside down with his diagnosis. In December he was given a life expectancy of approx 12-18 months. Pancreatic cancer is extremely aggressive, less than 20% of patients survive a year, around 5% make it to 5 years.
Tim - dad, husband, brother & friend - has the opportunity to travel overseas for an innovative new treatment, Histotripsy, used widely for liver cancer, and now available for pancreatic cancer as part of a clinical trial in Spain & on compassionate grounds in the USA. It's not a cure but we hope it will help buy Tim longer with us. Histotripsy uses targeted ultrasound waves which are synchronised to create tiny bubbles within the tumour. The force created as these microbubbles form & collapse breaks apart the tumour mass, killing tumour cells.
Updates will be provided on this page once a treatment option has been confirmed and further information becomes available.
Tim needs your help getting there, he has spent his life being the reliable one, which is why asking for help doesn't come naturally to him. But we, his friends & family, have insisted: this is one thing he doesn't have to do alone. Through it all, Tim has worked hard to stay fit and well, he's determined to make it well into 2027 and beyond.
I am a good friend of Tim and his family; I've set up this page with Tim & Kylie's permission on behalf of their friends in the Island Bay, Wellington, community & Tim's family in the UK.
Whether treatment takes place in Spain or the USA, all funds raised will go towards medical treatment, flights, and accommodation costs, which are expected to total up to NZ$100,000 (approximately £40,000 GBP). Our fundraising goal is NZ$50,000. If circumstances change, any remaining funds will be used for unfunded medical expenses, living costs, in-home care, and other essential family needs.
We have great news! 3 November 2026
As each day passed, the risk of Tim’s cancer spreading or growing was increasing. He was given a short notice opportunity to travel to the USA for treatment - so he and Kylie made a very quick decision to go for it! It was the fundraising on this page that allowed that to happen.
The treatment was in California, but no trip to Disneyland this time. Tim is already back home in NZ. It all went smoothly, but it'll take time to know how successful it was. We’re really pleased to have him home.
While he was away, the Wellington Phoenix put the fundraiser up on their big screens at a game as promised, and the donations started to flood in again. Not only that but Tim managed to fluke the time he had his procedure so that he was awake from the general anaesthetic in time to watch the game (and they won!) 🖤💛⚽
We’d like to give another thank you to everyone who's donated, which allowed him to go, to the Phoenix & their fans, and to the anonymous donor who matched donations.
Even though Tim has had his procedure, the total cost for treatment & associated costs was well over $100,000, so we'd love to keep getting donations to make up the remaining costs and to support his family.
We have a couple of fundraising activities still to come, including a quiz night and auction – inc donations from the Phoenix.
Tim is going to write a blog with more details soon - check it out here: https://timcoxnz.blog
From the Island Bay fundraising team🖤💛
Thanks so much for your kindness, Tim and his family really appreciate it ❤️🐞❤️🐞
Thanks so much Michelle, that’s very kind, Tim really appreciates it ✈️🏝️
🇬🇧🇳🇿 my goodness Becky and all your amazing friends - you are the best and all so kind - I hope your fundraising was a lot of fun as you all deserve it - thanks so much from the other side of the world 🇬🇧🇳🇿🇬🇧🇳🇿
⚽️💛🖤 thanks so much for your support Peter 💛🖤
🦋💙 Thanks so much Barbara 🦋💙 Tim really appreciates your help
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