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  • Thank you for your continued support on all levels

      26 March 2015

    I am sorry that I have not updated for a little while, but Ben has been having a few emotional issues lately - totally understandable - but it has put added worries on me because obviously I hate seeing him suffering. I have kept in close contact with his school, and we now both have a Social Workers in Schools lady that is involved with Ben and I to try to assist us, and now he has someone else to talk to about things that are concerning him, and who can make sure that the school are aware of how he's feeling too so that he gets the appropriate support at school and is treated with understanding and compassion. Ben is a proud boy - just like his mummy - and often doesn't seek help when he should, so I am glad that the social worker is helping him to open up to her and teaching him different coping strategies. It's a lot for Ben to deal with having his daddy leave home, and even more so when his now sole caregiver (me) has health issues - he has taken it upon himself to take on MY burdens - even though I try to keep them away from him as much as possible, but being the astute child he is, there's not much pulling the wool over his eyes. Things WILL get better, I know they will - for both of us, and we WILL grow from this experience. We are both determined not to go under, and your love and support has made this journey a lot more easier for us. Thank you so much. Love Beccy and Ben xox

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  • Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

      21 March 2015

    Thank you to all of you who are still sharing our Give A Little fundraising page and to those of you who have very kindly donated too. Ben and I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. xox <3 xox

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  • Still more donations! Wow! Thank you!

      19 March 2015
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    Hi there, Ben has been much happier today. Every time someone donates I tell him and his eyes go as wide as saucers! You really don't know how much it means to see my little boy not having to be an adult before his time, worrying on my behalf about how we were going to survive.

    This evening we had a nice evening - his eldest brother, Thomas, came round to visit and bought us pizza... Ben's favourite food. I was telling Thomas about all your kind donations, and he thinks you're all marvellous too.

    Thank you so much. :) xox

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  • Thank you all, once again.

      18 March 2015

    Thank you to everyone who has donated since the last update I posted. I am so excited to see that with the amount everyone has kindly donated to date - $795 - that I am very close to being able to pay off one of the finance agreements in full which will help free up so much more money monthly in repayments that I do not have to meet. Thank you also to everyone who has been sharing the link to my page too. That means so much. It's not all about donations, it's about the kindness and caring of you all - some of whom I have not even met outside of the world of Facebook, and a couple of you who I am guessing must just be friends of friends, or people who stumbled across this page by chance. Thank you SO much, once again. Ben sends his love to you all as I am keeping him updated too. One less issue for my little man to have to have weighing on his mind when he goes to sleep at night. We're going to be ok, thanks to all of you. xox

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  • Thank you SO much everyone :)

      15 March 2015

    Ben and I are absolutely overwhelmed by the generosity being shown towards us. We are more grateful thank you could ever know.

    [A little video below for you from Ben and I... though it's not us in the video] :)

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  • Sharing's great, thanks :)

      15 March 2015

    Thank you to all those who can't afford to donate but have been sharing the link to my page. With love from Ben and I x

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