In loving memory of Baby Charlotte

$2,290 donated
Given by 63 generous donors in 6 weeks

Raising funds to help with Baby Charlotte's Funeral costs & Remembrance plaque.

Manawatu / Whanganui

In the early hours of August 11th 2015 close to 5am baby Charlotte Barrell-Harding was born beautiful & perfect. Shortly thereafter her loving parents Stacey & Kris were delivered the devastating news that Charlotte was not going to survive, her umbilical cord had been compressed by a knot which had caused irreversible damage. Their beloved baby girl lived for 10 precious hours which she spent fully immersed in the love of her family. She slipped away peacefully while being cuddled & sung to by her Daddy just after 3pm the same day. Her loss has been totally, utterly heartbreaking for Stacey and Kris & all of us who know & love them.

Things have been far from easy for this loving couple. They are devoted parents to their blended family of 5 girls (baby Charlotte is number 6) and family is everything to them. Their happy healthy 2 year old Zoe's arrival was traumatic for completely different reasons. Zoe inhaled meconium during her delivery and stopped breathing. She was immediately medevaced from Palmerston North to Wellington Hospital's Neonatal ICU where she spent a week recovering. That was a harrowing time for them not knowing what the outcome would be and whether or not Zoe would have permanent brain damage.

Charlotte's birth was meant to be the experience they didn't get last time, the one that would right all the wrongs, the one that would have the outcome of a perfectly healthy newborn baby girl.....

This page has been created not only to assist with Charlotte's funeral costs but also because these guys really need a break, they need some good luck in their lives, they say good things happen to good people so let me tell you about the kind of good person Kris is, he's a regular kiwi bloke with a big heart & he has gone above and beyond to help other in his community in the past. In late 2013 he received a phone call from a retired couple wanting a quote to have their whole house re-lined and plastered. The couple had just learnt the home they had recently purchased with their life savings was formerly a meth lab. Kris rallied around local businesses and donated his time & skills free of charge to make this couples house a livable home again. That's the kind of person Kris is and his family is immensely proud of him for it. If you are interested in reading the full story it can be found by copying and pasting the link below into your browser.

http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/home-property/9840538/From-meth-house-to-family-home

To make matters worse Kris has recently ruptured a disc in his back! This is an incredibly painful condition that has left Kris unable to work. He's had the added stress of battling to get ACC assistance so he is able to continue to support his family, the added worry of funeral costs is something a grieving Dad shouldn't have to be concern himself with at a time like this. It is my hope that in creating this page, and having people get behind it Stacey & Kris will have some of the financial burdens associated with the most difficult time in their lives lifted from their shoulders.

Thank you for taking the time to read this page & Thank you if you have decided to make a donation. Your generosity is deeply appreciated.

You donations will help with payment for Charlotte's funeral, and for a Remembrance plaque/stone the family would like to have created & placed in the SANDS garden at Kelvin Grove Cemetery in Charlotte's memory.

"Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure.

You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure".

Dee Mayhew's involvement (page creator)

To help raise funds to go towards funeral costs & memorial costs for Baby Charlotte.

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Latest donations

Jennifer and Shen
Jennifer and Shen on 24 Sep 2015
Hi Stacey, so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful baby gal you had. Im friends with your sister inlaw, Dee.
$30
Keith Poore's Welsh family
Keith Poore's Welsh family on 24 Sep 2015
Thinking of you Kris, Stacey & Girls xxxx
$50
Marcia Archer
Marcia Archer on 23 Sep 2015
Sorry for your loss, I haven't met you but I'm friends with Corrie, Stacey & Charli... JD & Marcia Archer
$25
Raza & Jams
Raza & Jams on 23 Sep 2015
Love you guys xox
$50
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 22 Sep 2015
Your daughter was beautiful, so sorry for your loss
$40

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Dee Mayhew's avatar
Created by Dee Mayhew
Stacey Barrell's avatar
Paying to a verified bank account of Stacey Barrell on behalf of Kris Harding & The Barrell Harding-Family
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This campaign started on 15 Sep 2015 and ended on 31 Oct 2015.