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Jay Needs Our Support

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Support Jay who's facing cancer for the 3rd time in less than 2 years. With her 4th surgery happening her family need our help.

Silverdale, Auckland

In Sept 2023 our beloved Jay was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer that had spread to her liver. Over the next 11 months she went through 12 rounds of chemo, a liver resection, emergency bowel stent and finally a bowel resection. Her surgeon was happy that he'd got everything with good margins. Time to recover, but sadly the journey didn't end there.

June 2025 brought more rough news when a rising CEA indicated more cancer. After a PET-CT it was confirmed more surgery was required to remove a tumour on her ureter.

Finding CEA was still rising in Dec 2025, another PET-CT found cancer had found its way into her peritenial cavity. She just couldn't catch a break!

Jay now faces major cytoreductive surgery in Hamilton — a complex 10–12 hour operation to remove all visible cancer, followed by heated chemotherapy (HIPEC) delivered directly into her abdomen during surgery. She will need up to two weeks in hospital and a long road to recovery ahead.

Jay has been unable to work for over two years, placing significant financial strain on the family. Shane, who has served in the Navy for over 36 years, has been supported with time to care for her, but rising living costs, travel, accommodation, and time away in Hamilton will add further pressure. Any support for our gorgous friend, no matter the amount, will help ease the burden and allow the family to focus on Jay’s recovery.

Romilly Ashkettle's involvement (page creator)

Jay is one of my closest friends.

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Petrol, accomodation, household bills and time as a family.

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Jay’s Charitable Efforts  3 March 2026

Even whilst Jay is going through this battle she is still fighting for others and for the support bowel cancer needs in NZ.

In February Jay completed the Move Your Butt for Bowel Cancer challenge!

Throughout February, she walked 101km to fight bowel cancer and save Kiwi lives.

Because every month, 253 Kiwis are diagnosed with bowel cancer, and 100 people lose their lives to this terrible disease.

She raised $2495.30 for Bowel Cancer NZ to reduce the impact of bowel cancer across New Zealand.

What a bloody legend!

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This campaign started on 18 Feb 2026 and ends on 18 Aug 2026.