Judy's been caring for Peter (kidney cancer) for 12 months, & working. She now has bowel cancer & struggling to meet needs of family.
Bay of Plenty
In a world of caring nurses, 62-year-old Judy Morris stands out. She's one of the good ones, highly respected by her colleagues, never putting herself first and always going above and beyond to give the best possible care.
She and her husband Peter are an adoring couple, who found true love the second time round, describing each other as “their rock”, and Judy says often says it’s her goal in life to be there for him. They have six grown children and many grandchildren between them.
When husband Peter fell ill earlier this year - cancer of the kidney with a poor prognosis - true to form, Judy made him her utmost priority, especially after he had his kidney removed. She used up a considerable amount of sick leave, not thinking for a second that she would need it.
But just one month ago, Judy was also given a terrible diagnosis - bowel cancer. As the primary earner in her family and caregiver for Peter, this is a brutal blow to their already difficult situation. Undergoing surgery last Monday, she is still awaiting results to indicate the seriousness of her condition, but a few days ago Peter received news they had been dreading. His cancer has spread to his lungs, with between 12 to 24 months to live. Though I have seen Judy fighting tears on many occasions, it isn't from self-pity, she feels robbed of the chance to care for her soulmate.
It wasn’t Judy’s idea to post this page; she doesn’t ask for help because she’s always giving it. But it’s clear that a little would go a long way. Their family are not in a position to assist them financially, and what money they managed to save for their retirement will be swallowed up as Peter’s illness deteriorates, in addition to any costs associated with Judy's treatment.
In the time they have left, Judy wants nothing more than to give Peter the last of three modest wishes on his bucket list; The TranzAlpine NZ Scenic Rail Journey from Christchurch to Greymouth. Even if that’s all we can raise, it would be an incredible gift to this worthy couple.
Should there be further donations, rest assured they will not waste them. Any funds remaining after their last trip together will be desperately needed when Judy has run out of paid leave but must take time off as Peter’s condition worsens. Specifically, on bills, food, and unsubsidised medical care. Judy has no health insurance, so depending on her results, she will need that extra cover even more. Please give knowing that your contribution will be going to deserving people who will sincerely and gratefully accept with their greatest of thanks.
I work with Judy, I've seen her struggle for the last year, still working tirelessly. Now she is sick too, and she needs our help.
To Each And Every One Of Our 62 Generous Donors - THANK YOU SO MUCH!!❤️❤️❤️ 4 February 2017
I was overjoyed to receive the following letter from Judy detailing their progress and news. Judy has asked that I post this to all of you, the compassionate, giving people who have made Judy and Peter's only possible wish come true.
Should there be any further donations, they would be gratefully received, in order for Judy to take extra unpaid leave to care for Peter when his condition declines.
An additional thank you all so much from me, the response was overwhelming.
Melanie Duval-Smith
"Peter and I would like to thank the incredibly thoughtful people who have recently touched our hearts with their blessings and kindness. There have been so many words of encouragement, visits and generous gifts received during my recent surgery and recovery, along with the overwhelming financial support offered through the Givealittle fund set up by Melanie Duval-Smith.
My surgery went well and the cancer has been removed with one small operation remaining before I return to full health. I will cherish for the rest of my life, the memory of your support during those difficult months. Peter has not been so fortunate with his cancer prognosis. In addition to giving me some paid leave to nurse Peter in his final days to come, the Givealittle fund has allowed us to plan the last item on our bucket list, a transalpine train trip down South.
The trip has been booked for late March, when we will make a return train journey from Christchurch to Greymouth. Planning the trip has been an enjoyable distraction from days that are filled with fear and discomfort, which is a welcome relief.
Our heartfelt thanks for all your generosity
Judy and Peter Morris"
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