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Lockyer's Bone Marrow Journey

  • Currently the new norm...

      1 September 2021
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    23rd August 2021

    It's been a full week out of Hospital and this is currently our new norm now.

    Mum makes up Lox's meds in the Am, around 7am then, 2pm and 8pm...

    Lockyer is doing fine guys, but I think I can speak on the behalf of him and our fams, that there's no place like home.

    Doing all these small but important steps will get us home quicker but with this Delta strain going around, the tention is pretty thick.

    We know we are in the best place for Lox, but we are smack bang in the middle of a city where cases are just climbing.

    Strange times we are living in...

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  • Mum and Little brother is here...

      1 September 2021
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    12th August 2021

    Special Suprise... ❤️😊❤️

    From Mum and Thurston today... 💪😁💪

    Mum and Lil' bro flew up early this morning.

    Restrictions have been lifted for siblings...

    Nothing like having family around.

    Just missing the other 3 😔😕❤️❤️❤️

    Cherrish these times, especially from the fams 💪💪💪

    Love you Jahvarn, Jay and Nyah ❤️❤️❤️

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  • We have growth 😍😍😍...

      1 September 2021
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    9th August 2021

    #17 Days post transplant today!

    Entering His 7th week up at Starship this coming Friday.

    Back in April, we took lox to the dr's because we noticed he had blood spots that covered most of his body along with random bruises.

    The 1st signs he was pretty sick was the low levels they noticed in his white cell count.

    These were the 1st signs of either 1) Leukemia or 2) Bone marrow failure caused by having Aplastic Anemia.

    He was diagnosed with severe Aplastic mid April.

    So over the course of 5 months.

    Our boy has literally been living without an immune system. And each sheet we got we saw those white cell levels drop 0.07, 0.05, 0.01 untill we get to (>10) this means He has absolutely nothing in his bone marrow, white cells all wiped out! Most part caused through Chemotherapy and radiation.

    On the 6/8/21 right to the 8/8/21 you see (>10) on his white cell count.

    Then you look at todays date!!

    9/8/2021!!!

    Do you see those numbers??

    Those Amazing double digit numbers??

    17 days after His Big sister blessed him with the greatest gift she could have ever given him to help save his life!!! Those Amazing baby stem cells!!!!

    0.22!!!! 😭

    ❤WE HAVE GROWTH!! ❤

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  • An army of 5 Million...

      1 September 2021
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    22nd July 2021

    Successful Day of Harvesting!!

    Lockyer needed 5 million stem cells for transplant tomorrow.....and his Amazing sister produced over 5.6 million in a 5hr sitting.

    She was still producing solid amounts right to the very end!

    It was an amazing experience to watch this process and how these cells are collected, seperated through a machine and everything else returned back to Jay.

    How valuable these cells are for our son right now (Literally life saving)

    You are Awesome our Jay!!

    No fuss...No Moans and Just got the job done and for this we Thank you tremendously ❤

    Tomorrow is transplant day and she is allowed to be right by her brothers side when this takes place!!

    We put our trust in the process

    Draw strength from our Love

    And Pray to our lord that the out come is a successful one 🙏

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  • Our own little angel...

      1 September 2021
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    20th July 2021

    Taking some time to Acknowledge our Beautiful Amazing girl who is our Stem Cell donor for Lox!

    Jayliz or Jay as most know her has been recieving daily GCSF injections to help her Bone marrow produce Tones and Tones of Stem cells ready for Harvesting on Thursday morning.

    Harvesting these stem cells requires her to make a trip to the Blood Bank, she will have an I.V line put into each arm and be connected to a machine.

    This machine will separate her stem cells from her blood, collect the cells, feed her blood back through the other I.V line back into her body. This is a continuous process over a 5-6hr period.

    If they haven't collected enough on Harvest day then she will be required to go back for a few more hours of Harvesting.

    Like all things medical, there are always side effects, precautions and a chance where Graft vs Host disease may occur days or weeks after transplant.

    Our jay has played league amongst the boys and union up against the toughest 💪

    Anyone who knows you knows how much of a loving caring person you are!

    Mums best friend and dads Darling girl...forever her Siblings keeper ❤

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  • It all comes off...

      1 September 2021
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    18th July 2021

    Brah!!

    Loxz Room was a VIBE today!! 🔥

    Lox had his 2nd round of Chemo this morning.

    In total he will recieve 7 rounds.

    So 3 rounds left this week and will continue with a further 2 rounds post transplant next week.

    In loxz words "I decide when my hair comes off, not my treatment" 😏😉

    Big Mihi to Whaea Shirley and Matua Daymon for popping in for a visit 😊

    For bringing some warm messages all the way from Windley school in Porirua, for the kai and Gifts for lox!!!

    Was awesome to see some familiar faces 🥰

    And It done wonders for our lox to see you both!! ❤

    This week is Transplant week whanau!!

    Where Big sister Jay will go off on Thursday to the blood bank here in Auckland, she will sit for 5-6hrs and have her Baby stem cells Harvested all ready to transplant into Lockyer on Friday.

    Today lockyer was allowed his siblings in to visit 🥰

    So his room was filled with lots of Laughter, A Tone of love and positive Vibes all afternoon!!

    It was such an awesome Day!!

    Here is lox having fun Cutting off Big Brothers Hair!!

    🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  • Family Support System Strong...

      1 September 2021
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    16th July 2021

    The support crew that has put their lives on hold to follow their brother up and down the country!

    Living out of a suitcase...

    Away from the comforts of their home...

    Leaving their friends, whanau and partners back home in the hope that they can bring their brother home fit, healthy and ready to live a full life with each other ❤

    This is all done without a moan or any complaints.

    Just an immense amount of love and genuine care for our Lox.

    For my Children....I am TRULY GRATEFUL!!

    Support System Strong AF!! 💪

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  • Thougts and prayers...

      1 September 2021
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    12th July 2021

    Massive shout out to Room 9 Students at St. Joseph's School - Onehunga Auckland for all the well wishes and words of encouragement for our boy Lox.

    Was an awesome surprise dropped of by your teacher Lox's aunty Margaret LavuLavu last night.

    Raising awareness and having kids Lockyer's age, know about his condition is truly unbelievable, because we've never known about this condition till when Lox was diagnosed with it.

    It really touched him and made him feel more determined to know there's over 20 kids who have never met him and vice versa know, that he's in their thoughts and prayers. So thank you again Students 💪💪💪.

    And thank you for the Carl's Jnr Aunty 😂😂😂 and the ball bag Uncle Andrew.

    Thanks guys ❤️💯🤙

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  • Day 2...

      9 July 2021
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    Today is day 2 of recovery from Lockyers successful surgery that took place on tuesday afternoon.

    Absolutely heart breaking to see our boy wake up from surgery in the ICU with tubes poking out everywhere. His 2 sisters broke down crying and with what little strength lockyer manged to muster up he used to kiss his siblings and reassure them, that he was going to be ok and that he needed a long rest so he will have more energy for them in the morning 🤕

    Lox was moved back into the (BMT) unit 3am the next morning because he was doing amazingly well!

    Sadly age restrictions for visit's were put in place yesterday morning which now means his 2 younger siblings cannot enter starship hospital due to the new virus (RSV) that is doing the rounds in alot of our communities and major hospitals throughout Aotearoa.

    Look after your babies whanau and our elderly as this virus can also effect them too.

    Again, thank you all for the well wishes and prayers.

    Our focus for the rest of the week is to try and juggle life as a split family.

    Half at the Ronny Mc house with our 2 younger kids while the others stay with lox to help with his healing process.

    #teamlox

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  • So this just happened...

      9 July 2021

    Morena Everybody....

    Today is surgery day for our man.

    Surgery was meant to take place yesterday, but due to the short supply of rooms and beds available in Paediatrics intensive care unit we had to push it out by a day.

    Neither the less we are all go for this afternoon.

    Today's surgery will see the removal of the top section of Lockyers left lung.

    This needs removing to remove the fungal infection in order for lockyer to move on with a stem cell transplant.

    Depending on how Lockyer does during and after surgery his recovery could be a few days down in ICU and then transferred back up to the Bone Marrow Transplant unit where he is likely to stay for the remainder of his journey here at starship.

    CONDITIONING LOX FOR A STEM CELL TRANSPLANT!

    The Transplant team are keen to get this under way as soon as possible and as soon as next week.

    Conditioning Lockyers body to receive new Stem cells will consist of Chemotherapy, Radiation therapy and all the other drugs they need to prepare him for this transplant.

    (This is all while trying to heal from his surgery)

    OUR AWESOME STEM CELL DONOR?!!

    💥❤ BIG SISTER JAYLIZ!! ❤💥

    Who is absolutely over the moon that she is able to help out little brother lox!!

    This is likely to take place in a weeks time!

    Where Jay's Cells will be cleaned and harvested ready to Transplant into Lox ❤

    (We will talk more about this process later)

    The team here at Starship have been absolutely AMAZING!!

    And even thou there are many risk with surgery, conditioning and stem cell transplant.

    If these steps are not taken...the risk for our whanau losing lox to this blood disease is far more greater!!

    We Thank everyone who has sent Prayers of healing, love and encouragement to our whanau and especially our Amazing boy!! ❤

    This morning our Whanau are Vibing to UB40 🕺💃 Before lox goes and gets prepped up for surgery!!

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  • Wellington to Auckland...

      9 July 2021

    This was Friday night, its taken a while to upload this vid as it was pretty close and personal with Lox and all our families who were there.

    A surprise send off for their Little bro... ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭💪💪💪🔥🔥💚💛💚💛

    Big Brother and Big Sister sending off Lox (with mum in tow) to Auckland as he battles the next phase in his journey.

    Things have gotten pretty serious now and Lox has surgery (Tomorrow) to remove a part of his Lung where the infection is sitting and its high risk.

    Not the operation itself (but there is always a small risk of operations) but the healing process itself is.

    We are now at starship hospital spending time with Lox as a family before tomorrow comes.

    Just want to say thank you to all those, that have sent their prayers and thoughts for Lox and us, we appreciate all the words and help during this time.

    ❤️❤️❤️

    Video credit to Big Cousin Jahziah...

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  • Another one...

      9 July 2021
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    1st July 2021

    What a week!! 😅

    Ya could say our week has been a little like Wellington's weather...

    Mon/tue/wed....Crap!!

    Thursday was looking a little bit more sunnier 😊

    Lox was admitted BACK into Wellington hospital on monday morning.

    CT scan showed there is something sitting in the bottom of his left lung.

    Possibly an infection, results are still pending, but it's been treated with antibiotics.

    Why is lockyer always in hospital?.

    Loxz condition (Server Aplastic Anemia) has caused lockyer to have no neutrophils.

    No Neutrophils means 0 immune system so Lockyers body doesn't have a defense mechanism when it comes to catching infections or helping its self to heal like a normal person would.

    Catching a virus or infection from an infected person could take as little as a hand shake.

    Helping lox to clear that virus/infection takes 3 times longer and needs hospital admission to do so.

    Loxz has been on daily medicine for the past 4 months to help prevent these situations, but these medicines only cover some viruses and not all.

    Loxz is fed up with his condition...

    And we dont blame him...

    It's like for every step forward we can happily take, we are dragged 2 steps back screaming and shouting 😑

    We cant tell if the ATG treatment is working because he keeps getting sick.

    We have until the end of this month and they start moving Into phase 3 which is "Prep phase" for a 2nd attempt at finding a bone marrow donor or tissue manipulation of either myself or Jeff.

    Lockyer has his good days and he has his bad.

    Not everything is smiles!!

    He constantly tells me his body is tired.

    He just wants to be at home.

    He suffers from major PTSD and still hasn't recieved help from Wellington hospital for something that was caused in their hospital due to misdiagnosis 🙄

    He is Brave, courageous and Resilient!!

    This is what we tell lox every day ❤

    #teamlox

    #photo Before and after lockyer went in for a lung biopsy, he was awake for most of the procedure and slept for hours after lol.

    Tonight he is home with his siblings ready to have dinner before having to go back to hospital.

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  • CT scan today...

      9 July 2021
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    29th June 2021

    Lox is having a CT scan for a potential infection in his lung/chest...

    Let's hope it's nothing major and if it is something hopefully we got it early.

    Busy week ahead... 😢😢😢

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  • Passing Time

      9 July 2021

    17th June 2021

    Passing Time by, with another dose of Antibiotics thru IV line...

    4 weeks of this every morning to treat an infection in Lox's body.

    Been over a week now since being on this type of antibiotic so all up will be 5.

    7 days a week...

    Another meeting tomorrow with specialists to see if we can administrate it here at home, well we will try.

    Probably due for a unit of Platelets too.

    This back and fourth between Wellington Hospital doesn't fit in with us and our family so will see if we can...

    Anyways, Lox is doing well, moving a bit more freely now and is slowly starting to do things for himself which is always good.

    Today's pic of him jamming a Hugby Yawnion game on the ps4 😂💪🔥

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  • Knowing my body...

      13 June 2021
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    Imagine a 12yr old having to tell a hospital to re test something because he KNOWS they've gotten it wrong?!

    Imagine those results returning and that 12yr old being right!!

    When Lox was first diagnosed with SAA (Severe Aplastic Anemia) we had to tell Lox to "Relearn" his body and he had no choice but to adjust to his condition and to always raise his concerns because his voice matters!!

    He has learnt what every pill is for and what every pill does to help him.

    He even knows the name of every pill he takes or has taken.

    He knows when he is low on platelets and knows the signs of when it is he needs a transfusion!

    He has learnt his body and condition down to even being able to read his own body temperature with out a thermometer. So before the nurses check they ask him "guess the temperature" and most times he's a winner!

    This morning he had bloods drawn to check medication levels, platelet levels and hemoglobin levels.

    The results returned a hemoglobin level of 31.

    Straight away he requested them to check again....2nd test revealed his levels are actually at 80!

    Thank god, because he would have been hooked up to a machine for 4-6 hrs today and ain't nobody got time for that on a Saturday 😏😂

    He makes us so proud!! 😊

    His opinions matter and his voice is always heard!! 💪 and he had no choice but to adjust to his condition and to always raise his concerns because his voice matters!!

    He has learnt what every pill is for and what every pill does to help him.

    He even knows the name of every pill he takes or has taken.

    He knows when he is low on platelets and knows the signs of when it is he needs a transfusion!

    He has learnt his body and condition down to even being able to read his own body temperature with out a thermometer. So b4 the nurses check they ask him "guess the temperature" and most times he's a winner!

    This morning he had bloods drawn to check medication levels, platelet levels and hemoglobin levels.

    The results returned a hemoglobin level of 31.

    Straight away he requested them to check again....2nd test revealed his levels are actually at 80!

    Thank god, because he would have been hooked up to a machine for 4-6 hrs today and ain't nobody got time for that on a Saturday 😏😂

    He makes us so proud!! 😊

    His opinions matter and his voice is always heard!! 💪

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  • I'm coming home...

      4 June 2021
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    We closed the chapter on our journey at Christchurch's CHOC ward yesterday.

    Jumping on the 1st flight home back to PORIRUA!! 😊

    Lox will continue to take medication for the next 6 months in the hope that the treatment he recieved and the medication he is on will help sort out his immune system. Loxz journey will continue with Wellington hospitals Oncology ward and transfusions will continue when he needs them.

    If all fails then we go on another journey at starship.....but let's get through the next 3-6 months yeah?! 😅

    We were thankful to be that family who could walk out of choc together.....but our hearts were sad to hear of the children who were not taking too well to treatment and were having complications.

    We met with some Amazing parents and kids who were on the their own journeys battling with leukemia or other Similar illnesses.

    As a mother who was happy to be able to fly home with her son, I still thought and woke up this morning thinking of those parents who still had a battle on their hands and had to continue on fighting their own journeys.

    We think of 1 particular family and their little girl ❤

    Thurston made friends with her little brother....

    Dad would share a conversation with her father....

    And us mothers would share a hug every now and again because we as mothers of sick children understand, not only are you forced to battle with their illness, you are forced to ride the emotional roller coaster the illness takes you on. And some days it feels like the ride is never ending.

    The quiet tears we cry that no one sees and the heart ache you share with no one else because they wouldn't understand.

    These our Babies!!

    We wish you well on your fighting journey Beautiful family ❤

    And best wishes to your Beautiful little girl ❤

    Lockyer and the Brown-Risati whanau.

    My boy is finally home!!

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  • 3rd day on ATG

      20 May 2021
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    Good morning everybody...

    Starting 3rd dose of treatment this morning.

    6 hour infusion, after this, hopefully 2 more infusions over the next 2 days and the ATG treatment will be over.

    Fingers X...

    Safe to say, so far so good.

    😊😊😊

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    • 20/05/2021 by Johnathan

      All the best Lockyer..Pray Gods hand be upon you and yr family thru this whole process.God bless you ,yr siblings and yr parents..much Love fam

  • ATG Treatment starts today.

      18 May 2021
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    After a 2 week delay... And 3 weeks since leaving Wellington...

    Lockyer will finally start his Immunosuppression Drug Therapy today.

    We are currently in the high care ward for the next 4 or 5 days starting from today.

    He's a bit nervous and scared which is normal but he can't wait to get all of this out the way.

    His body has taken a toll, but he still continues to smile throughout his ordeal.

    Fingers X we get the results that's needed going through with this ATG treatment.

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  • Delayed Treatment 😢

      16 May 2021
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    On the 3rd of May, Lockyer was meant to start his Immunosuppression Drug Therapy but little did we know, we had a spanner in the works which has delayed his treatment.

    Lockyer had appendicitis and his appendix had bursted.

    He had surgery to remove it on the 6th May and has to endure a long lengthy recovery due to this set back.

    He is recovering well, and could possibly look at sometime next week for treatment if all goes well.

    He's actually healing pretty good considering he has no immunity system.

    Here's a pic of him reading all the kind messages from people who were part of a fundraiser back home in Porirua.

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  • Atg Treatment has been delayed.

      3 May 2021
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    Evening Everyone

    An update on how our Man is doing so far here in Christchurch.

    As some are aware, since Lockyer was diagnosed with his condition Lox also falls under the Immune compromised category. So loxz neutrophils sit at 0.01 and have been since his diagnosis.

    So the white cells that help normal healthy people fight off infections are pretty much nonexistent in our son.

    Yesterday the Dr's were tying up all the loose ends before he was to start his Treatment today.

    So they sent lox for a C.T scan because our son would spike some random fevers every now and again.

    The results showed he had inflammation of the Appendix.

    They decided to delay his treatment and have the "Tummy" Dr's come up to ward and have a look at lox and a korero to Dad and I.

    In an ordinary patient that has this problem they would surgically remove the Appendix (Appendicitis) before the Appendix bursts and the infection seeps into the lining of the stomach and so forth, but due to Lockyers condition they found this procedure to be far to risky to loxz health and may even make the situation worse. So it was decided that another week of antibiotics and some healing time may put him on the right track for treatment to start next week.

    Before Lunchtime today he was taken to have an ultrasound done on his tummy.

    Then we get a visit from the Dr....

    He tells us that Lockyers Appendix has already burst and may have burst a week or so ago before we came to Christchurch.

    As shocking as that was to hear and the dr also being in disbelief, he told us that somehow Loxz body had formed a bubble that contained the infection and stopped the infection from seeping out into his stomach lining and so forth.....this could have been life threatening for our son.

    His Dr is absolutely puzzled because these things dont medically happen and especially to a kid with our sons condition.

    There is no stomach pain, he is eating alot less then usual but he is still eating, drinking and walking when he feels up to it.

    I think he went through the worst of it back home at Wellington hospital and he is on a slow but steady recovery here in Christchurch.

    We are calling it a Medical Miracle 😇🙏

    So keep praying whanau because some one is definitely working in his favor!!

    Here's a photo of lox living his best life before treatment was meant to start today, I guess he gets another week to keep living his best life before his treatment starts next week 🥰

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    • 20/05/2021 by Johnathan

      You the man Lockyer! Thats was a miracle alright..God Bless you champ and yr family..Alofas

  • Lockyer's new phase of treatment.

      27 April 2021
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    Lockyer heads to Christchurch for Immunosuppression Drug Therapy.

    Quick photo with all his siblings before he leaves via Life Flight.

    Thankyou all for your support.

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    • 27/04/2021 by Tee

      Sending love,light and healing from my whanau to yours.

  • Thank you for all your support...

      22 April 2021
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    It's just been over 24 hours and on the behalf of Lox and the rest of our fams, we are truly overwhelmed with the love and support from all across Aotearoa and far.

    Will continue to update you all as much as we can.

    God Bless everyone who's making this possible for our family.

    ❤️❤️❤️

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