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Lyndys tough journey

$3,993 donated
Given by 38 generous donors in one year

To help mum to stay in her beloved 100+ yr old home safely while she recovers from major surgery & huge life change & get the care she needs

Huntly, Waikato

Our mother was diagnosed with bladder cancer in March 2023, ordinarily "normal" people get through it, our mum on the other hand, she couldn't receive chemo or radiation as it would of killed her after the first dose due to her leg that is blocked with several blood clots due to another huge surgery she had 5 years ago when a leg bypass Stent went wrong and the surgeon severed her nerves and therefore walking is rather difficult.

So we waited months for a surgery date (28th July) which involved full bladder removal, lymph nodes removed, full hestorictomy, bowel reconstruction to create a stoma for an external pouch to be attached for the collection of urine, the death rate of the surgery is 1 in 20.

The recovery so far isn't going well. New obstacles appear each day, making the battle even more draining & difficult emotionally and physically, but hopefully, she will pull through after weeks of extreme pain and suffering.

Mum lives alone with her doggo an hour away from us at the back of Huntly, she is very independent & loves her piece of paradise on the hill surrounded by her friends of the village, so therefore we need to keep her in her home for aslong as possible, but to do so we need to raise money for some repairs around her property to make it safe for her to get around as she is unstable on her feet aswell as to keep her independence aswell as to get the right care in her home and transport to future appointments

Nikki Hassall's involvement (page creator)

Lyndy is our mother, we are a small family with huge hearts, lyndy has 2 daughters, 1 son, 5 grandsons, 1 granddaughter, 2 son inlaws and 1 doggo, Sam, who is her world.

She has always been so strong, always there to lend a hand to whoever you are.

Use of funds

Updated on 12/10: Funds will now be going towards Lyndy's final farewell to other relm.

Original: Structural repairs on mums house like reinforcing the deck so she doesn't fall through it(again) leveling out uneven surfaces, insulation, bathroom upgrade to make it hygienic for bag changing, gravel for the driveway etc

Making mum feel safe in her home

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Latest update

The End  16 October 2023

Sadly our beautiful mum crossed over Saturday 14th at 4:20pm peacefully with her daughters by her side , son in laws and grand boys all surrounding. It was a sad moment but also a beautiful one, there was love and laughter along with memories that filled her room that day.

Thank you to everyone who loved mum and spent time with her, came and said goodbye and brought one last twinkle in her eye with a smile.

All donations will go towards mums cremation and greatly appreciated.

The universe definitely gained a beautiful soul.

💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔

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Chrissie
Chrissie on 15 Oct 2023
From Dad, Kev, Dave, Chrissie and Tim.
$1,200
Nikki Hassall

OMG thank you so much that's ever so generous and will help hugely towards mums cremation ♥️

Nikki Hassall
Glyn
Glyn on 06 Sep 2023
With you all the way - you’re our wonder woman
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Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 05 Sep 2023
To an inspiring lady, from one she has inspired!
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Nikki Hassall

Thank you so very much, your generosity and kindness means the world ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Nikki Hassall
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 29 Aug 2023
$30
Nikki Hassall

Bless ya, thank you lovely lady ❤️🩷❤️🩷

Nikki Hassall
Kelly
Kelly on 19 Aug 2023
$80
Nikki Hassall

Thank you so much, your generosity and kindness will go along way ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Nikki Hassall

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This campaign started on 5 Aug 2023 and ended on 5 Aug 2024.