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Mike's Surgery Recovery 100km fundraiser

  • The Next Leg of the Journey

      14 December 2022
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    We are settling into the new (temporary) normal. Mike continues to get better each day, but the recovery is going to be a lot longer than anticipated due to the complex nature of the surgery. He's getting more energy, so we've been going on walks. He's able to sleep almost 5 hours (!) straight at night, so his happy self is coming back. I'm opening this back up as this is going to be a longer road.

    Hope everyone has a bit of relaxation coming up this holiday season. Big hugs from the Roes

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  • Road to Recovery

      29 November 2022
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    Hi All!

    Mike's back home and now the real recovery begins. Surgery was a success, but came with some complications (which luckily happened while he was still in hospital)...and the surgery itself was "a hell of a struggle", as the surgeon told me after the fact.

    We have been so lucky to have a meal train going (Thanks Sarah Pocock for organizing!). Since the surgery was trickier than anticipated, the recovery looks different than expected. Mike is not allowed to move the right arm for any reason except to get in the shower for the next 6 weeks. That means a lot of my time is spent making sure he isn't trying to be too independent for a few more weeks. Quite the challenge when your patient is a nurse. :)

    I know he would love to hear from you guys if/when you have a minute. Luckily the World Cup is on and that's a good distraction from the task of passively waiting for your body to heal itself.

    Thank you all for your kindness, thoughts and gestures and gifts over the past few weeks. It really helps knowing we have such a caring community.

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  • Meals

      18 November 2022
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    “Tēnā koutou / Hi friends of Amanda! In the upcoming weeks, Amanda will be focused on helping Mike through recovery and rehab. I’ve asked Amanda if we can support her and the family with some meals during that time. If you have the time and means to make a meal to deliver to their home starting the week of Sunday 27 November, please sing out to me and I’ll put you on the meals roster. Thanks so much in advance! sarahholliday.pocock@gmail.com

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  • Fundraising Closed, Next stop surgery--rehab--and 100km!

      17 November 2022
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    When I was cooking up this idea, we had no idea when Mike would be able to get his surgery done. It's been a year today since we went to the GP here to get the ball rolling. He had to have the other one replaced 6 years ago, but that was only a 6 week wait from the first appointment. This has been an entirely different journey. We are so very grateful to have all this love and support. I've never done this kind of fundraising, and it's been amazing to get exactly what we need to quickly get Mike the best recovery plan in place. All of the funds will be spent locally in the Gisborne economy---it's important to us to lift up our day-to-day community here, especially the close to the holidays. Most of the funds will be used for specialty physiotherapy, starting on the 28th (only 5 days post-op!). He will be working with someone who specialises in shoulders AND will help him have a functional shoulder and arm again (they've both been pretty much out of commission since August).

    It's a long and at times grueling recovery, but he will be in such amazing shape by the time I go for my "little run" in January. I had originally planned to do it in December, but with the new date for surgery, I will still need to be home, doing caretaker stuff at that point. Mike's new goal is to be able to BBQ for us for Christmas Day. :) Typical.

    I just want to say thanks, from the bottom of my everything. Our everything. I have had many moments of massive relief, just knowing that you all are supporting us, and that we are going to get back to "normal" pretty soon.

    I will post details about the run as get closer to the time. As usual, I will be doing mile dedications, and any cause/prayer/wish is up for my utter and complete focus during your mile (or km if you prefer).

    Big hugs and love,

    Amanda, Mike, Iris and Harry

    P.s. you know our "normal" is not so normal--but we have a lot of fun and I can't wait to boogie with my husband again!

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  • One week away from our departure.

      15 November 2022
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    We leave next Tuesday for Hamilton. Mike is currently isolating away from home so the kids and I can go to work and school without increasing his risk of getting sick (and thus delaying the surgery). These are interesting times, indeed.

    We are now only $211 away from our goal, and it's been amazing seeing these funds pour in from both near and far to get Mike over the line. To those of you in other countries, the dollar amount is in New Zealand Dollars, so when you see it come out of your account, it will be $1.00NZD to every $0.61USD, or $1.00NZD to every $0.52GBP.

    If you can help us out by sharing the link, that would be awesome! This fundraiser closes on November 16th at midnight (New Zealand time). Thank you thank you thank you!!!

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  • Training Block: Night Runs

      14 November 2022
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    As of a month ago, we still didn't know when Mike would get surgery. The docs seemed to think it could still be months away, and Mike has used up almost all of his sick pay because his right arm simply does not work and he has been in 24/7. pain for months now. So, I set a date of January 7th to complete this 100km Adventure to raise money for him to take the time off that he needs and to get the rehab he needs to have a (hopefully) fully-functional arm again!

    There are 14.5 hours of daylight that day, another hour of twilight on either end of the day, and it's a full moon. I estimate it's going to take at least 18 hours for me to finish. Originally, I was hoping to do the fundraising well before Mike's surgery, but as fate would have it----surgery has miraculously been set for next week! I am so grateful to everyone who has donated because it means if I reach my goal by the 16th, they can release the funds and I can get everything set up for Mike's recovery by the time he gets home. Then, all we have to do is get him home, get him healed up-----and he will be in much better shape for me disappearing for a day to do this for him and for us. We love you all so much and are so incredibly touched to have your support.

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  • Running 100km for Mike

      10 November 2022

    We are getting close to the surgery date, and I'm training for 100km. Bring it!

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