Visiting my partner for the first time

My partner and I have been together for a while and are long distance. She lives in Boston and I live in New Zealand. We found each other and fell in love when we were both having a very difficult time and both struggling mentally. She recently lost her father and I have been dealing with my mental health. We video call everyday and now we want to start our life together and meet for the first time. We believe God made us cross paths because we needed each other. She is a stay at home mom and caretaker for her Aunt. I'm currently trying to find work but because of my mental health it's been a battle. We want to start a life together in the states and finally be happy as a whole and not be what seems like worlds apart. Please help support our dream of bringing our families together.