I want to spoil my mother on her birthday. This probably will be her last one with us.
Manawatu / Whanganui
I started this 'Give A Little Page' to fund a
queen for a day for my mum June Chandler.
My mum never had much growing up and she sacrificed a lot to bring up us three girls on her own.
My mum is currently in Palmerston North Hospital. She's being in and out over the last couple of years.
She suffers from chronic kidney disease, severe heart failure, arthritis, and diabetes.We have just found out she might have blood cancer.
Because of all her medical conditions and her age shes struggles day in and day out.
We have spoken to her doctors this week and between us and the doctors we have decided it would be too painful and the treatments too invasive and might not prolong her life anyway.
We thought we were going to loose mum this week due to a nasty chest infection and she became very delirious.It was so scary to see mum that way.
We are hoping mum will be with us to celebrate her 80th birthday on dec 31st.
Me and my sisters Lesley and Julie and my niece Kahla want mum to have a pamper day, where she gets her hair styled and dyed.Have a facial, manicure,pedicure, even a full body massage, and after that have a professional photographer take some photos
We also would like to book a limousine to pick up mum at her door and transport her to a real nice restaurant, and even buy mum a lovely outfit to wear.
Mum has had a very simple life. She's never travelled anywhere. She just couldn't afford it bringing up three girls on her own.
I know that if mum knew what I was doing she wouldn't like it because she's a very private and proud woman, but she deserves to be spoiled once in her life.
I have never asked for anything from anyone before but I need to do this for mum before she dies. I want her to remember this for what ever time she has left.
I promise I will one day pay it forward when I can.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story, and I will put updates on here about my mum.
p.s-this picture of mum smiling in her hospital bed is from last week when we told her her daughter Julie was coming home from Aussie for a week.Her eyes lit up like candles.
I am June's daughter and I decided to make a page for my mother because of lack of funds.
mum back at home 30 September 2016
30/09/2016- mums come out of hospital today, shes still very weak and not eating much but man is it great to have her home again.
shes lost alot of weight in the 2 weeks she was in hospital but the family will make sure she gains some of it back in time.
well take care of mum until she needs to go back in hospital when she gets sick again- we are going to treasure the time we have left with her.
mums grand daughter kahla my niece has been amazing with mum, visiting every day bringing mums great grand daughter to visit, buying mum her favourite diabetic lollies.
at the moment the family are doing different types of fund raising so we can raise money to take mum places, we live in feilding and i want to take mum to tepapa i think she would love that
the pickture i have put up is of mum before she got sick holding her great grand daughter mckenzie
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