Remingtons road to Recovery

Remington, survived a fall from the harbour bridge. The doctors prepared us for the worst — scans showed severe brain injury, and we were told he may not make it.

But he did.

Remington is 30 years old. He sustained broken ribs, a bruised lung, and serious brain injury. His recovery journey is long and uncertain, yet he is here. He understands, he responds, and even though his speech is still slurred, his words carry meaning. Each response is a step forward.

His twin sister has been by his side every day, often sleeping at the hospital so he is never alone. Through her aroha, kōrero, and quiet presence, she reminds him who he is and that he is loved

with rehabilitation, medical needs, and travel — but also to speak to those who carry loss.

To the whānau who have lost loved ones who did not survive — we see you.

Your pain matters. Your loved ones matter. Their stories deserve to be heard.

We share Remingtons survival with humility and respect, knowing that many of our people never make it home. Because of that, we believe this journey is not just his alone — it is a chance to raise awareness, to open kōrero, and to help make change so that no one feels invisible or unheard.

We call Remington a survivor — he toa, and we carry with us the memories of those who are no longer here. Through aroha, kōrero, and collective support, we can do better for our people.

Ngā mihi nui for any koha, for sharing this page, or for holding our whānau — and all whānau who grieve — in your hearts.