Saving Micheline Next Chapter

Dear supporters of Micheline,

It’s been not even 12 months since we found Micheline in dire condition hours away from death. Going from 18kg, when we found her in the most awful condition to see a human being in, to now 40kg, full of live, laughter and happiness is an incredible achievement. It’s timely that we provide an update on Micheline’s progress. By the way, Micheline is also lovingly called Missy by many.

MISSY'S HOME

As you know from the last update, when Missy returned to Vanuatu, she was placed with her aunty Ruth and family, who are incredibly generous and kind people. Our Missy is not just extremely lucky she survived her ordeal but is also very fortunate that she has such a caring, loving and safe environment where she can continue to heal and flourish. Ruth is taking her role to raise Missy and look after her needs very seriously and is doing an exceptional job! Ruth lovingly takes care of Missy and currently also patiently home schools her to safe Missy the trouble she may experience at school from questions and possibly being mocked about her scars on her body. Luckily there are nearly none on her face. As you can imagine, home schooling is a big commitment. The medication Missy is currently on, affects her attention span, and Ruth skilfully and patiently continues to persevere, understanding the importance of education but also the potential psychological impact on Missy if she went too soon to a local school.

RUTH & FAMILY: “Ruth & family, we are deeply grateful for all your care and love you give to Missy, your perseverance, support and continued adaption to new challenges and learnings. It gives us so much comfort after what we all have been through together, that Missy has a real home and the best caretakers we could have wished for her.”

NEW CALEDONIA HOSPITAL

It was time to take Missy back to the clinic in New Caledonia for her check-ups. A couple of weeks ago, Missy, Ruth and Tobias went together to the clinic and Tobias described this as a real eye opener. You may remember that after dropping off Missy in New Caledonia last year, Tobias and Nicole weren’t able to stay and many of the people who supported Missy during that time, Tobias had never met before until now when he took Missy back to the clinic. It was like Missy had VIP status. Everyone knew her when they arrived. There was an entourage of staff at the clinic waiting eagerly to greet her at her arrival. Tobias said that he was amazed how many close connections Missy made during her time there. She captured the hearts of so many; staff, pharmacists, nurses kept coming to see her. They all fought for her survival in one way or the other. Tobias was so humbled by this experience. He had no idea how deeply Missy impacted so many people in New Caledonia. She isn’t just a patient there, she is actually almost part of a ‘family’; the only way to describe it….

Some context: Normally the team who performs surgeries, they see a patient once. But Missy was anaesthetised every 2 days regardless if it was Christmas, New Year or a public holiday and regardless of costs. The team was there for here and responded as needed. A lot of resources were allocated and used. What was kind of funny, was that Missy actually didn’t know any of the surgery team as she was never conscious, but they obviously knew her very well. When we arrived, they all came to see her, and Missy was a little bit overwhelmed when all these ‘strangers’ greeted her so wonderfully.

DR MISSOTTE’S TEAM: “We would like to express our uttermost respect and gratitude for the incredible work your teams performed to enable Missy’s survival. The commitment we witnessed medically was outstanding but also the human aspect of loving kindness, tireless care and support 24 x 7 was second to none and will always live in our hearts and minds. It has changed who we are and we feel a very close bond to all of you who helped us when we faced this huge challenge. We are humbled and grateful. Thank you all for what you accomplished.”

MEDICAL CHECK UP

Missy had a physical check up which highlighted an issue with 3 toes on her left foot. They have deformed as a result of the burns Missy had endured and unfortunately it is too early to operate but carries a risk of posture issues later. It will be monitored for now.

She also had blood tests, nearly 8 hours of infusions (anti-allergy medication, Rituximap immune suppressing medication etc), X-rays, ultrasounds and a new medication plan has been established.

Rituximap will need to be administered every 6 months for another 2 years to keep her condition under control. It does carry the risk of catching infections as her immune system remains suppressed. Steroids are still being administered but will be slowly reduced over many months. She also has to take antibiotics every couple of days to reduce the risk of infections.

All up the flights, tests and medication cost a wopping NZ$6800.

Missy is in excellent care and in good hands. She was very happy, laughed a lot and took it all in her stride. She was very relaxed with all the check up and treatments. There is no fear, just trust.

Ruth said that she was really glad she could come along to New Caledonia. She asked many questions and got clarification on a number of topics and feels better equipped to continue being Missy’s caretaker.

OUR STAY IN NEW CALEDONIA

We were incredibly lucky staying at the gorgeous

Hotel Le Lagon https://lelagon.nc/en/home/

What a treat! Patrick Cardin, the owner, offered us free accommodation which was incredibly generous and we couldn’t have stayed at a better place. He also offered us to stay there for free again during any future visits which we will gladly accept.

PATRICK CARDIN: “Dear Patrick, thank you very much for your generosity letting us stay at no charge at your beautiful hotel. We couldn’t have been more comfortable! It is also a real pleasure to have made this connection with you. No doubt, we will see each other again! Ruth & Missy”

Last year, Mr Toebelmann spent a lot of time with Missy, her dad and stepmother entertaining them during their stay. During this last visit, Tobias met Mr Toebelmann for the first time, and it was lovely to see how close Missy and Mr Toebelmann are. Missy was so happy to see Mr Toebelmann again, and he is like a ‘granddad type’ figure to her. She really enjoys being around him.

MR TOEBELMANN: "Thank you so much for all your time and effort over the last months. It clearly was so important for Missy’s healing to have the support and care of people like you. You have become an important friend in Missy’s life and she has obviously really bonded with you which is wonderful. We look forward to many more happy memories we can share in the future.”

It was also time for new clothing for Missy. We took her shopping and allowed her to choose some new clothes herself. Which girl wouldn’t love that?? Missy was definitely appreciating the attention and thanked us for being able to do a little shopping herself ;-).

Friends and supporters, this is our update for now. We hope this put a smile on your face, check out the Gallery for new pictures, and as always, thank you for your generosity and support!

Until the next update!

Kind regards,

Nicole and Tobias