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Sophia-Grace's Funeral Costs

  • Sophia's Heart

      14 February 2021
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    Hiya all!

    Adding another update as I've had quite a few people ask me the story behind this; and I realise I haven't elaborated on my givealittle due to having an instagram page dedicated to Sophia-Grace (_sophias_heart).

    At 19 weeks gestation I went for the typical 'gender' / anatomy scan where the lady informed me that my baby had a heart anomality.. I was all alone at the scan.. it was pissing down with rain.. my little sister was sitting in the car with my (now) 4year old son as he wasn't allowed in. After that she asked if I wanted to know the gender, I told her I wasn't going to formally find out because I 'just knew' that Sophia was a girl, but due to her having issues I would. She confirmed that Sophia was indeed, Sophia!

    The very next week after tears and fear I was flown to Christchurch so they could give Sophia an echo cardiogram where they went on to diagnose her with severe heart conditions which we (my older sister and I) were told she would need birthed in Auckland so she could have intervention after birth.

    From there, it was monthly scans, and the next month it might have been they told me that they weren't sure if Sophia's outcome while interutero.. meaning that my pregnancy could culminate in still birth, and from finding out about her heart cond we were given 'options'. And of course; I chose giving her the best chance at life! My diabetes ended up out of control despite what we did/tried etc which was really trying for me but I pushed and pushed untik the end; we were also told that she may end up with hidrops so since the start of January so was weekly scans until birth ❤️

    Her heart went hyperplastic it instead of hypoplastic as they had expected which ended up squishing her lungs Unfortunately 😭

    Picture of all her diagnosis'

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  • Sophia's Raffle!

      14 February 2021
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    Running through a website called

    Tweedle Baby & Mum is a raffle with $2 tickets; there are multiple prizes including a rare/limited edition ALCMENA cloth nappy (Royal Flush).

    There are also vouchers from alot of supporting brands such as a 1 month supply of Kiwi Garden products!

    60% of funds will go to this givealittle page, then 20% to heart kids and 20% to the neonatal trust (as Sophia had both these teams looking after her) 💖

    Please head over to support all 3 of our causes by buying a raffle ticket or 2!

    Maybe you have a friend who would like to participate to win also! 💗

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  • Thankful

      7 February 2021
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    I'd like to take the time to stop for 5 minutes and just thank you all for your support; sharing, donating, and all your kind words and prayers through the most difficult time in my life.

    I'm sorry I haven't responded to everyone individually, I felt this was would be a bit more practical for myself 💜

    Sophia-Grace has been cremated and is now home with her 2 older brothers & myself 💐

    It sure is lovely to have the 'normality' of daycare runs as well as dinner, bath & bedtime routines.

    I've had family cook meals so I'm only really heating things up, and this is making such a difference.

    Much love 💞

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