This will be a long journey so we have set this up to somehow help lessen the load and financial stress. Anything will be appreciated ❤️
Silverdale, Auckland
Earlier this year we received the devastating news that our beautiful boy Finley – known to us as Rah – has bilateral Wilms’ tumour, a rare kidney cancer affecting both kidneys. A 15cm tumour was found on his right kidney and a smaller one on his left. Within hours we were at Starship Hospital.
Finley has endured surgery for a Port-a-Cath, NG tube, and later a major operation to save as much kidney function as possible. Genetic testing revealed loss of heterozygosity (LOH), meaning his cancer is more aggressive and requires stronger chemotherapy alongside radiation.
Through it all, Finley continues to amaze us. He doesn’t speak yet, but his cheeky grin, sparkling eyes, and bravery light up every room.
In the midst of this journey, our family also faced the heartbreak of saying goodbye to our precious baby boy Bailey, who was born sleeping. Grieving while caring for a child with cancer has been almost unbearable, yet we carry him with us every day.
Life has thrown us so much at once: childhood cancer, the devastating loss of Bailey, long hospital stays, and endless unknowns. Your support — whether through donations, sharing, or simply keeping us in your thoughts — helps us keep going.
Thank you for standing beside Finley and our whānau
We are the BestStart community that surround Finley and his Whānau.
The funds will be spent on funds covering Whanau's loss of wages, travel costs, food, and accommodation.
Radiation 19 November 2025
Hello everyone,
Finley started his radiation journey this week and it has been a tough beginning. On Monday night (the day he had chemotherapy and radiation), he vomited through most of the night, so we had to delay his first radiation session on Tuesday (19/11) because of gas in his tummy.
He made it through treatment today and things went as expected, but he is exhausted and a bit fragile. We are taking each day as it comes and are deeply thankful for all your aroha and support.
Gus and Carley
Thank you for your donation Jamie
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