We have all been deeply moved by the untimely and tragic loss of Matthew. We can do something to help... please do.
Canterbury
On New Years Eve a tragic vehicle accident stole Matthew Dow from his family and friends. A precious son, brother, grandson and nephew, such a gentle kind soul, with so much to look forward to in 2018, cruelly taken without notice before the new year had even started. Matthew, a stickler for doing the right thing, had never so much as had a parking ticket. As you can imagine, Peter and Karen are absolutely devastated to lose their beloved son, stolen from them by another person's poor driving decision. Hamish and Angus are struggling to come to terms with the fact that their big brother is no longer with them.
Nothing prepares a family to face this and the one aspect where we can do something to help is to ease the financial burden associated with this tragedy. There are the many expenses relating to laying Matthew to rest. With the accident happening up in the Nelson area, away from home, this brings added stress and requires unexpected travel and accommodation. We don't want finance to be something the family needs to be concerned about. We know money will never bring their precious Matthew back but it will support the family to farewell him, celebrate his life and keep his memory alive.
This is an initiative by Karen's friends, Tracey, Sharon and Rebekah... who knew there would be others who would also wish to support the Dow family in this way.
With the loss of a loved one comes many unexpected expenses, adding an extra burden on the grieving family. We trust the funds raised will go some way towards lightening the financial load and any surplus to be used to support them going forward.
Petition launched on anniversary of Matthew's death - please take a moment to sign online... 7 January 2019
The Dow family marked the anniversary of Matthew's death with the launch of a petition calling for random roadside drug testing for drivers. The petition is backed by Nelson MP Dr Nick Smith, who said Matthew was among the 79 killed on the road last year in accidents caused by drivers under the influence of drugs. He said police needed the tools to help get such drivers off the road.
This is a request to please sign this petition online here and forward the link around your own family and friend circle:
Karen and Peter hope the petition will save another from enduring what they have.
"At the very least it might save another family going through what we've endured this last 12 months. It's been an horrific time in all our lives - we've lost a son and our two other boys have lost a brother, and it was such a tragic waste - it didn't need to happen."
The news story can be viewed here: https://www.stuff.co.nz/national/109673475/roadside-drug-testing-petition-launched-on-anniversary-of-new-years-eve-death
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