Supporting Jay's recovery after a brain haemorrhage, while helping Kim and their two young boys through this difficult time.
Mount Maunganui, Tauranga
We're raising funds to support Jay, Kim and their two young boys, Eli (9) and Kade (5), after Jay suddenly suffered a serious brain haemorrhage.
Jay remains under specialist care at Waikato Hospital. While the bleeding has thankfully stabilised, doctors are still unable to determine the cause and further scans will be needed in several weeks. Jay is also experiencing significant vision impairment, and his recovery and return to work remain uncertain.
Jay is a hardworking builder, Kim runs her own cake business, and together they're well-known members of the Arataki and Mount Maunganui community.
With Jay unable to work for the foreseeable future and Kim needing to care for him while supporting their young family, the financial pressure is growing. Funds raised will help with everyday expenses including groceries, household bills, mortgage or rent, fuel, children's costs, and travel to medical appointments.
Every donation, no matter the size, will help ease the financial burden and allow Jay to focus on his recovery. If you're unable to donate, please consider sharing this page.
Thank you for your kindness and support.
I know Jay and Kim through our children's school and the Arataki community. We're also teammates in a local social netball team and wanted to help support them during this difficult time.
Everday expenses to help ease the financial burden for Jay and his family after a sudden brain haemorrhage changed their lives.
Latest update on Jay ❤️ 8 July 2026
Firstly, thank you from the bottom of our hearts. We are completely overwhelmed by the generosity, kindness, prayers, messages, and support we've received. Every donation and message has meant more than words can say.
The good news is Jay has now been discharged from hospital and is finally home. While this is a huge milestone, his recovery is only just beginning.
Jay's MRI confirmed a large intracerebral haemorrhage in the right occipital lobe. At this stage, there's still too much blood to determine what caused the bleed. The plan is to repeat the MRI in around six weeks, once the blood has been naturally reabsorbed, to hopefully identify the underlying cause.
Many have asked why surgery isn't being done. Due to the location of the haemorrhage, the neurosurgical team believes operating could cause more harm than allowing the blood to absorb naturally, so careful monitoring and rest are the safest approach.
Jay still has some vision loss, although we've seen small improvements each day. We don't yet know how much vision will return, and we're still waiting for answers, so he's not out of the woods just yet.
The next six weeks are crucial. Jay needs plenty of rest and minimal brain stimulation, so we'll be limiting visitors for a few weeks while he settles in at home.
Thank you again for carrying us through this incredibly difficult time. We'll continue to share updates as we know more.
❤️🩹 Kim xx
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