Help James with his medical bills as he tries everything to beat the odds. This 43 year old husband and father is not ready to give up!
Canterbury
In August 2016, just after James's 43rd birthday he was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic bowel cancer, which has spread to his lymph nodes, liver and lung. The average life expectancy with this diagnosis is only 2 years.
James and his family have tried to avoid asking for help, but after 6 months of funding his treatment they need financial assistance going forward. Unfortunately, James does not have income protection or life insurance because he is considered to be an insurance risk. Between 18-20 years James had three spontaneous collapsed lungs. At 22 years, he was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis following an attack that left him paralysed down the left-hand side of his body. At 30 years of age James was diagnosed with Coeliac Disease (auto immune disease). Shortly after their eldest son was diagnosed with the same condition. At this stage James radically changed his lifestyle and adopted a gluten free diet which managed to reverse the symptoms of his MS.
From August 2016 James has had a colostomy (bowel bypass to a stoma bag) and now has a large hernia behind the stoma. James has had six months of chemotherapy which has had to stop due to the severe side effects from the drugs. James can no longer feel his fingers, feet and half way up his legs.
James's Oncologist believes he may only have 8 months before his cancer starts to grow rapidly again.
In an effort to prevent chemotherapy from completely destroying his immune system he has supported his body with a number of alternative therapies. James has radically changed his life again in an effort to change the expected outcome.
James has been a true inspiration how he has made every effort to be at work despite the last gruelling few months.
He is one of those really 'nice' guys, fabulous family man, colleague and friend to all.
James no longer eats meat or sugar and sticks to a strict whole food, organic diet and takes 14 different vitamin and mineral supplements each day.
James would like to continue with the array of supplements and therapies, such as Neurolink, cranial osteopathy and Mistletoe Therapy to help him through this period, but they are excessively expensive on a weekly basis.
James and his family would be most grateful for any assistance given.
Update as at September 2017: 15 September 2017
In May 2017 James underwent surgery to remove the temporary ileostomy and replumb the bowel. It was hard work for him to start with. Urgent toilet visits averaged 15 times a day, mostly at night. Exhaustion hampered recovery. Our surgeon advised us to keep doing what we were doing with pre & pro biotics and sticking to a vegetarian diet to aid rapid gut healing. With the help of Neurolink and acupuncture things came right quickly once James turned the corner. Chemotherapy does so much damage that it takes up to a year to re-establish good gut health.
In August 2017 James had a CT scan to gauge healing and progress. We were gutted to discover that whilst the tumour site, lymph nodes and peritoneum (stomach area) remained clear, the metastases in the liver and lung had grown and spread. 5mm metastases are now 5cm metastases.
The oncologist offered more chemotherapy whilst James’ liver would tolerate it. Treatment was planned to slow the growth of the tumours in the liver and lung and prolong life for a few months. The worst side effects of the second stage treatment is constant diarrhoea and nausea. We have decided that living with daily nausea and diarrhoea is not living and have declined treatment. This news left us very frightened and low.
We have picked ourselves up again and are continuing to surround ourselves with people who support us in our belief that James can still stop the growth of the metastases with diet, alternative treatments, meditation and positive thinking.
Despite a challenging prognosis we will continue to put up the best fight we can.
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