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The day our lives got turned upside down .

$399 donated
Given by 13 generous donors in around 6 months

A parents worst Nightmare .

Wellington

Where do I begin .. on 22 may 2025 .. Toya and Damiens lives were turned upside down .

After and operation for an ear infection and being told there was a 1_2 % chance of infection Tapaka(son) unfortunately fell into that category .an operation was again done which they closed the ear off .

From there things went down hill .Tapaka was transfered to starship hospital where he lay in a coma with a 1% chance of survival .

Days went by watching Tapaka and waiting for some signs he was progressing .

4 days later he was slowly brought out of the Coma(over a few days ) as you could imagine if this was your own child .this is the worst thing to watch as parents .

Tapaka is responding to voices but unfortunately the outcome is that he is brain dead on his left side.

And will now be wheelchair bound .. with all the costs involved being in another town .

And also loss of wages . We are as you would know struggling .

Tamaka's twin brother is by his side alongside mum and dad.

Thankyou to everyone in advance who may be able to help .

We are forever grateful.

Donna Wallis' involvement (page creator)

I am an aunty .

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Accommodation. Travel .and other expenses that arise .

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Latest update

Tapaka's Update   26 June 2025

Posted by: Damien Bruce

Paka (Tapaka) is recoving slowly and is making progress next step will be Rehab in Auckland and we are happy will how he is coming along and Thank you to everyone for the support

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April on 10 Jun 2025
Sending lots of love to you cuz
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Paying to a verified bank account of Damien Bruce on behalf of Damiens step son whi is in starship hospital after a surgery that went wrong.
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This campaign started on 6 Jun 2025 and ended on 6 Dec 2025.