Toves needing help to lift the costs of her medical care off her shoulders. Her disability was caused by medical neglect
Auckland
Hi there,
I'm creating this fundraising page for my forster mother Tove.
Tove frequently goes to the ends of the earth for the people she cares about She needs to have surgery every 2 months due to sexual assault and trauma, each surgery she has seems so reveal something new that needs to be repaired.
The assault exacerbated some underlying conditions such as endometriosis and PCOS
Doctors and specialists kept dismissing her as she has an extensive medical history (her first surgery was around 6 years old) being called a "too complex case", has CMT; A degenerative condition causing muscle wastage, tendon atrophy and nerve death, starting in hands and feet, creeping up the limbs and her alternative appearance, eg tattoos, piercings and bright dyed hair.
She was bounced around different apartments in the healthcare system before, luckily with determination and not wanting to quit she's found a really good GP and surgeon who try so hard to ease her pain, but sadly due to being medically neglected, her condition as irreversible.
The money raised through this page will be going towards transport to and from hospital/ GP appointments and specialty dietary foods.
Winz isn't doing enough for her.
She's a single mother, chronically ill and unable to work but yet she advocates for survivors of sexual and domestic violence, young trans and queer people and really just anyone who needs help.
If you call and ask her for help she'd move hell or high water to help get the care you need.
Here is a link to her Vice article that shows some of her work despite massive mental and physical trauma.
A trigger warning though, this mentions being sexually, physically, emotionally and mentally abused.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope you can help by either donating or spreading this link around
Tove is my foster mum, she is incredibly giving and kind. She needs to have surgery every 2 months and the costs are building up
The funds will be used for travel costs to GP and surgical appointments, specialty dietary foods and support with costs relating to raising a child while helping the people she knows who needs support
Update from Tove 12 January 2022
So I finally got my next surgery date. Friday 21st January. They've warned me it'll be a pretty big one, that I'll be in a LOT of pain, and that I HAVE to stay in hospital about a week. My surgeon was like, I know you hate hospital, I know you tend to discharge early because you think you'll be fine, but you have to promise not to do that this time... not that I think you'll be in any state too, you still have to promise not to leave until I personally discharge you. Joy.
Its been a really rough few months, the pain has increased to the point I barely sleep or eat. I've also had massive problems with my GP, as my incredible dr has gone on study leave and so I've been dealing with a bunch of different, highly judgmental new doctors who refuse to read my history, my notes, listen to me. I've been having to go in several times a week, explaining things over and over, and getting charged for every mistake they make. It's been hell, and I'm really struggling. I'm in huge debt and I'm also struggling to support the many people who rely on me. The community work I do is what keeps me sane, helping those in shit situations is so important to me and I hate that I can't do that as much as I need too.
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