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Two-for-One Justice — Help Me Finish the Fight (and Then Help the Next Family Too)

$162 of $115,000 goal
Given by 3 generous donors in around 5 months

A mother of two fighting financial abuse needs help funding her legal battle to secure justice

Auckland

I’m a mum of two young boys who has spent years surviving financial and emotional abuse from a former partner who used money as control. Despite wealth and success, he contributed almost nothing to raising his sons, leaving me to carry the load.

I’ve just won a protection order to keep us safe. Now I’m fighting for a fair property settlement — something the law says I’m entitled to, but which I can’t reach without costly legal support. I left the relationship in 2015 with almost nothing, and since then he has withheld support, cut us off when I wouldn’t comply, and used money as leverage.

I once had financial backing, but it required giving up a large share of my future settlement and became tied to someone else’s personal agenda. That wasn’t right for me or my children, so I walked away.

So far I’ve spent around $60,000 on legal fees. This is my last resort — asking for help to bridge the gap so I can finish this fight. My goal is $110,000 to cover costs through to settlement.

Use of funds

Use of funds will go towards

• Legal costs held in trust and paid directly as invoices fall due

• Repayment of a previous funding arrangement so I can move forward independently

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Abigail
Abigail on 08 Sep 2025
$150
Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos

Thank you so much hun. Everything is falling into place slowly! Appreciate this so so much!

Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 06 Aug 2025
$2
Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos

Thank you so much, really appreciate your support!!!

Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos
Private Donor
Private Donor on 30 Jul 2025
$10
Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos

Thank you very much!

Rebecca Rosaline van den Bos

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This campaign started on 30 Jul 2025 and ends on 28 Jul 2026.