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VIRAL INFECTION IT WAS NOT, ADVANCED MELANOMA IT WAS, OUR LIVES CHANGED OVERNIGHT DRAMATICALLY!

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Viral infection it was not, Advanced Melanoma it was.

Canterbury

Andy went to work on the 25th of September, little did we know that was his last ever day of work. He decided to come home mid-morning as he was having difficulty walking, knowing something was seriously wrong so I, his wife rushed him to the ED.

Numerous doctor visits from mid-July which started as mild symptoms and firstly being treated for a viral infection with antibiotics, they missed what really was happening for months maybe a different outcome if caught in July?

Then the shock of our lives, when the word "cancer" we were told he had metastatic melanoma in his spinal cord, brain, chest lymph nodes and rib. Andy condition was a bit unique and it quite complicated due to it affecting is central nervous system.

Andy was the family main income earner which has brought challenges. The facility provided was not fully funded and had to contribute to a daily charge rate.

He had 3 hospital admissions first came out with a walking frame, second one a wheelchair and 3rd one put into an end-of-life facility.

Radiation and 2 rounds of immunotherapy didn't work for him, and they were stopped a scan mid-January showed all have growth including 3 new bigger ones in the brain.

His oncologist feels the immunotherapy, in her words "poked the bear". Which didn't give us a desired outcome we were hoping for. It was hard for not only Andy but also the family seeing him decline and losing his independence.

Sadly, this month he has started deteriorated very fast a bit faster than expected.

Kathy Coulson's involvement (page creator)

Andy is my husband

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taking financial pressures off so able to spend time without the worry, pay for Andy care which has a daily charge and other costs associated .

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Much Sadness  22 February 2024

With much sadness to say Andy passed way the morning of Saturday 17th February after a fight with the cruelest disease. We were with him as he took his final breaths. Our future without him is going to be tough.

Thanks for all that have donated this money will go towards the funeral and other related costs.

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Atika on 02 Mar 2024
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Ruby Sangha on 26 Feb 2024
Sorry to hear about your loss Cam , Condolences to the Family
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Kathy Coulson

Many thanks

Kathy Coulson
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Sabby on 26 Feb 2024
My thoughts are with your family
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Thank you for your support

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Thank you kindly

Kathy Coulson
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Guest Donor on 20 Feb 2024
Thoughts are with you and the Family Cameron
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Kathy Coulson

Thank you

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This campaign started on 15 Feb 2024 and ended on 13 May 2024.