Alone in Germany ... He has had complications with his treatment.and now cannot fly home. His mum is going to him urgently...
Auckland
Paul is in Germany and was married and has one son aged 4...Paul has stage 4 cancer..primary colon .secondary liver and pancreas. he has been given 2% chance if living 12 months and 35% chance of living 6 months.
He is alone trying to cope with both physical and emotional trauma..
He would like to come back to Nz to be with his Mum ...but now
unfortunately he is not well enough to fly home so his mum is going to him next week . see updates
Paul is not our son. but kind of an adopted one . He came from Jamaica to Nz with his Mum when he was 5 ... Our son Andrew bought Paul home from the dairy one day. They became firm friends and we have supported Paul and his mum Beverly over the years...
Flight to Nz... other costs in getting him here...
Paul's mums memorial wish 28 January 2021
If you are reading this because you donated to Paul's givealittle fund last year. ... thankyou thankyou thankyou
. It made a huge difference and allowed them to be together... especially given Covid complications.
Sadly Paul passed away in Germany on 22nd.October last year His mum was able to be with him thankfully. It was such a sad time for them both.
Paul was cremated and his ashes sent back to Nz. on the 31st October but they have not arrived here yet...!!! probably due to covid.
Paul's mum Beverly is not coping well with losing her only son. .. not surprising really.
She lives close to Purewa Cemetery in Meadowbank .
There is no way she can afford to have Paul's ashes buried there with a small headstone. which is her hearts desire... and she REALLY wants a photo of him on the headstone.
Beverly has no close family to support her emotionally or financially. Our family is her family now and we are certainly doing what we can to help her through what would be my worst nightmare. Our son Andrew and Paul were great friends and the same age.
SO....all donations..no matter how small would be a real encouragement to her .
To know she has a place to visit him ...in the years to come would be absolutely amazing .
thanks everyone.
sincerely.
Louise Taylor
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