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Bluff to Invercargill - Walk for Hope

  • Thank You

      31 August 2023
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    Thank you to EVERYONE who has supported this beautiful Cause for our Young People.

    I know that had I been given and shown the opportunity to go for Counselling then I KNOW my soul would have found Rest, Peace during my youthful years AND I would have discovered the Power of No!

    I have found that power - well I found that a few years ago and healing has been phenomenal - not without the bumps in the road! But healing, peace and rest for my Soul, my Mind, my Wairua is my Korowai.

    Ngā whakapaingia koutou katoa - blessings 🙌

    Alamein

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  • Raffle Results and Table-tennis Donations

      28 August 2023
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    Kia ora koutou katoa

    This will be almost our last Post - one more tomorrow!

    Our Table-tennis Fun-raiser was a massive HIT!

    A very BIG Thank you to Table-tennis Southland for supporting our Cause and allowing us the use of the Table-tennis Clubrooms for our event - they are right behind this Cause!

    Also we had a Raffle that was drawn on Sunday night by our Senior Selector for Southland Table-tennis, Gemma Buzzard, who is also a very well seasoned and experienced Table-tennis player. Thank you Gemma!

    If you would still like to donate to our beautiful Cause there is still time 3 days to be exact!

    Thank you to everyone who has participated, shown your support, encouraged us along the way as we walked AND played 24 hours of Table-tennis over 2 days.

    Nga mihi nui ki a koutou katoa - Alamein

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  • An extra Fundraiser to help get us over the line!

      14 August 2023
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    Hi Everyone who has kindly donated your time, your money, your karakia, your thoughts and your generous encouragement - we feel your love and support for our I Am Hope and Gumboot Friday Team!

    I have written a poem about our walk and the challenge that we faced as we neared the last 7.5-8kms! It was tough. My thoughts were going awry AND I felt like I was really going to cave in!

    Thankfully we stayed on track - which is where the Poem was inspired from;

    Many a time our Rangatahi, our Young People feel like giving up. The pathway to Life, to living gets really, REALLY tough!

    The last part of our walk I really felt like I was walking on behalf of our young ones and also in remembrance of our Beautiful Ones who have passed on.

    I thought about their families, their friends, their parents and grandparents.

    It's a difficult road to learn to unpack grief from suicide.

    The poem is in a previous post titled The King and Queen of Comeback.

    Our Walk for Hope may have ended BUT our GOAL to raise $2000 is still happening.

    We are doing a 24 hour Table-tennis Fundraiser over two days.

    The details will be added here but we will be streaming some of it LIVE through our Facebook Page, https://www.facebook.com/DualCleanServices2018/

    We are also doing a raffle and some of the items have either been purchased or donated from Local Businesses - Southlanders Support Local!

    The Raffle Details will also been detailed on our Facebook Page and ALL of the proceeds from the raffle go directly to I Am Hope. (This is separate from our Givealittle page)

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  • Our Walk for Hope Poem

      14 August 2023
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    The King and Queen of Comeback.

    We were nearing the last of our very long walk.

    I had thought heavily about the times I wanted to give up!

    My mind was clouded.

    I was thinking about phoning our daughter to see if she would pick us up - INAIANEI!! NOW!!

    I didn't want to do this walk anymore.

    I'd had ENOUGH!

    I WAS OVER IT!

    There was nowhere that I could sit and rest. I needed to replenish my mind with good thoughts. All I could see was the never-ending, grassy, winding pathway. And the end wasn't even in sight...except for the rooftops of the buildings in the distance...so far away.

    My hips, my thighs were aching and my legs and feet were arguing with my spirit. I felt like my body was screaming so loudly that the whole of Clifton could hear me.

    I almost gave up! I almost caved in! The pain was unbearable. I wanted to SCREAM OUT. At the most difficult and hardest part of our walk I STOPPED. But only to compose myself.

    ...and then I was lifted out of my body...looking down at us walking.

    I could see everything. The birds. The water's edge. The sun glistening. The cars. The houses. And I can see me walking. For you. With you. With them. With us.

    My thoughts turned to the ones, the two's, the threes who have been driven to despair - that even life itself is loathed. The pain, the agony, to keep living day after day after day.

    "Where oh death is your victory? Where oh death is your sting?"

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  • Table-tennis Fundraiser Update

      9 August 2023

    24 Hours of Table-tennis over Two Days

    I know that you know that we are passionate for the mahi that Mike King and the WHOLE Team do for I am Hope and Gumboot Friday.

    Which is why we did our Bluff to Invercargill walk – to continue to raise awareness AND money so that our Rangatahi – our young people can receive counselling – FREE Counselling!

    Soooooooo…..

    Thomas has the Approval and the Support to do a 24 Hours Table-tennis Fundraiser for I Am Hope at the Lindisfarne Street Table-tennis Clubrooms.

    Keen to help us make this a Success!

    Keen to help us reach our goal of $2000!

    Keen to come on down to support us by playing for an hour against Thomas!

    Keen to join in on the fun!

    Keen to encourage your family to come on down and have a game!

    Details of this Great Event;

    Day 1.

    Date: Saturday 26th August

    Time: 8am – 8pm

    Day 2.

    Date: Sunday 27th August

    Time: 8am – 8pm

    We are asking for a $5 donation or more to play at any time the DURING 24 hours that Thomas will be playing.

    ALL proceeds from this event goes directly to I AM Hope.

    If you would like to go BOOK a time-slot so that you’re guaranteed a game during a time that suits you then let us know! We have already got some time-slots pre-booked from some eager players!

    Thanks for reading.

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  • 24 Hours of Table-tennis over 2 Days

      9 August 2023
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    Yes, you read correctly!

    Thomas is going to be playing Table-tennis for 24 hours over 2 days!

    Keen to join him!

    Keen to play against him!

    Then keep an eye out for ALL of the details!

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  • But wait.....there's more to come!

      4 August 2023
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    We are doing ALL that we can to continue to reach our goal of $2000.

    So.....

    We are going to be doing a 24 hour Table-tennis Marathon over 2 days.

    What will that look like?

    Thanks for asking!

    Saturday 26th & Sunday 27th August from 8am to 8pm Tom will be playing table-tennis. We will be playing at the Clubrooms where Tom is a member and together with friends, family members, club members and new prospective members, they will be playing against Tom! This will be a donation and/or a GIVEALITTLE donation through our Link!

    Keen to SUPPORT and join in on the fun!

    Come on down to the Clubrooms on Lindisfarne Street, Invercargill...oh it's okay - we don't expect you to play for 24 hours though!

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  • Recovery Day

      30 July 2023
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    "So how did the recovery go after the Walk for Hope hīkoi yesterday?"

    "Well, thanks for asking!" 😁

    After our hīkoi I chilled out with water, pink gin and a home-made gingerbread biscuit after eating a delicious Sushi dish 😋

    Tom filled up on chicken and a smoothie after playing tabletennis for 2.5 hours at the club rooms 🏓

    And today - we'll what a fantastic day! After giving the inside of our whare a really good tidy up, I washed the outsides of the windows then we went for a gentle walk through Queenspark.

    I'll be putting pics up of our Goodies Basket - I'd love to do an Online Auction but it looks like we'll do a Raffle.....but I'll keep you posted once it's all finalised.

    Have a beaut night 🌙

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  • "We DID IT!"

      30 July 2023
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    We DID IT 🥳💪💥👍😁🙌😊

    But we're leaving our GIVEALITTLE Page open until the end of the month...

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    Because...

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    We would like to raise $2000 for I AM HOPE

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    We've got a Basket of Goodies that is being put together as we speak.

    It will be filled with MOSTLY Local products and/or Services❗️

    I would like to run an Auction but that's new territory for me so...I'm still thinking on that one 😍

    If I can't figure out the "How To" for an Auction then we'll do a Raffle.

    ALL proceeds from the Auction/Raffle goes directly to I am Hope and Gumboot Friday ✅️

    Thanks HEAPS to everyone who tuned in, got a pic with us, the toots we're a great encouragement, those who were going to join us tomorrow if the weather was appalling today.....

    The Weather was incredible! It got so hot that I did a wardrobe change and put my shorts on 🌞

    🚶‍♀️ 👟 🩳 🚶‍♀️ 🏘 🎶 📸 🫖 🥧 🚶 📯

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  • The Eve of our Walk

      28 July 2023
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    A BIG thank you to Elaine from Windsor Physio for helping me prep for our I AM HOPE Bluff to Invercargill - Walk for Hope - tomorrow morning.

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    Pastors Will and Rachel Cheeseman are meeting us at the Bluff Signage then they're going to warm up the Greenhills Church and put the kettle on for us and anyone else that would like to come on down for a.....

    🫖☕️ cuppa

    🥮🥧 snack

    🤹🗣 chat

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    Do you know anyone who has a Gold Coin AND who would like the chance to WIN a Full Home Window Clean❓️❓️❓️

    Then tell them to come on down to the Greenhills Church and write their details onto the paper provided and put it into the jar.

    Boom 💥

    Done ✅️

    ***Notice how the tape on my legs and our Work Uniform is color co-ordinated 🤠😁😍

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  • Day 5 of 9

      26 July 2023
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    It's okay to talk.

    It's okay to listen.

    It's okay to not have all the answers.

    It's okay to not have any answer.

    It's okay to cry.

    It's okay to think.

    It's okay to find solace in writing. In singing. In walking.

    It's okay to ask for help.

    It's okay to keep asking for help.

    It's okay. It's okay. It's okay.

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  • 4 of 9

      26 July 2023
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    Mental struggles for me were MASSIVE!

    Whenever I was faced with similar circumstances or people types, my insides would react and I would do or say all that I could to get out of those situations. My mind was a mess and I had no way of understanding what was happening to me - except that I was looking to find safety!

    Fight or flight is real and it looks like someone punching themselves to freedom.

    Sometimes it may sound really quiet as the person is internalizing everything.

    It may look like the person is going 'off the rails' with their life choices.

    They may look and sound really happy, jovial, friendly, generous.

    This is real.

    It's no joke.

    Sometimes there is no coming back.

    Other times you and I are the lifeline that's needed for our Rangatahi. Our Young People.

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  • Day 3 of 9

      26 July 2023
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    Day 3 of 9

    I do want to say that even though I have been for counseling off and on throughout the years - one time, when I was sharing intimate details of my trauma, the Counselor fell asleep 😆

    I can laugh about it now but at the time I was shocked as I stopped talking and watched my Counselor sleeping, her pen in hand, and enjoying an afternoon snooze 😇

    Perhaps this was a one off❓️

    Regardless - I pray that our Rangatahi, our Young People are valued as they seek help 🙏

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  • Day 2 of 9

      26 July 2023
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    Access to Counselling is incredibly vital and its imperative that access is easy. Attainable. Available.

    As a child that would have made a HUGE difference.

    Yes I still would have done some weird stuff in my search for where I fitted in this world BUT counselling, at such a young and innocent age, would have changed my whole life.

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  • Spamming my page with Updates

      26 July 2023
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    I have been posting daily updates on our Work Page and completely forgot about posting on here too! Although I have been adding photos since we set this page up.

    I'd just like to take the time out and do a massive SHOUT OUT to everyone who is doing their utmost to Raise Funds and Raise Awareness for our Young People.

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  • My Why for doing this hiikoi...

      26 July 2023

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    👉 As a child having to navigate my way through society was a dead-end street! Especially after the court case!

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    Way back in the old days 😇 1977 is back in the old days right 😉

    Life was actually very carefree.

    But because of a terrible, sensitive incident that occurred - all of a sudden the carefree living went haywire.

    I no longer wanted to "go play" with friends.

    I just sort of stayed home as much as I could.

    Nobody talked about "the incident" therefore I came to the conclusion that maybe I caused it? Maybe if? Maybe if?

    But nobody talked about things back then - not in our family. We weren't wrong for keeping "it" under wraps and all hush, hush. You just got on with "it" - whatever your "it" was that you have to get on with.

    However, I had no real tools to be able to unpack what had happened and so I went inwards. I suppressed everything. EVERYTHING. I became very internally depressed and there was no "life-line" thrown towards me so that I could find a way out of this - this mess. This nonsensical mess. 👈

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