Big Buddy Fatherless Day Appeal For thousands of New Zealand boys, Fathers Day is not a celebration itfs just another reminder that they have no father in their lives. This is more than simply sad. Boys who grow up without fathers are at greater risk of developing behavioral disorders, abusing drink and drugs, attempting suicide, and committing crimes. The statistics on fatherless boys are compelling and heartbreaking. Principal Youth Court Judge Andrew Becroft tells us, 83% of the youth offenders he sees in his courts are male and 70% come from single parent families, that very few serious youth offenders come from stable, two-parent, homes. Judge Becroft says gOn the other hand, not every solo parent breeds a criminal. Nor am I making judgments about separation. What I am saying is that most serious young offenders lack a positive male role model.