Help me fund my surgery privately

PLEASE READ - I have made it so that the money will only come into my account IF I reach my goal of $5000, if I don't then the money will stay yours!!

I have been struggling with an undiagnosed abdominal pain since I first got my period when I was around 11-12. Cut to now and I have been in and out of the hospital at least 5 times (even overseas), doctors have come to the conclusion it is most likely endometriosis. This pain has been a huge part of my life, it affects my daily activities and my relationships with people meaning sometimes I have to miss out on things because I am in too much pain and can't walk or get out of bed. I have tried all sorts of different medication with no long term relief and at the moment I am experiencing pain at least once a day (whether that be an 8 or a 1 in terms of how bad it is)

I have seen a gynecologist in America who recommended I get a laparoscopy and then when I came home I had to see another gynecologist (which cost a few hundred dollars) and she has referred me to get one at the hospital. However, she said the waiting list for this is unpredictable. It has already been around 6 months since she put it through. The day because NZ went into level 4 lockdown I was supposed to go to the hospital for a meeting to discuss my situation and hopefully talk about surgery options. This was cancelled. I was told I would be eligible for a phone interview probably that day but heard nothing. I gave it a few weeks then rung back and asked if I would get a call. I was told that she would pass on a message and hopefully the doctor would get in touch. I still haven't heard anything. Even after elective surgery reopens I will still be having to wait another (I would guess) 6 months as I have to get a time to meet with the doctor then get put on the waiting list for the surgery. I cannot afford to have anymore time off Uni and my job and I would love to be able to have a normal life where I can hang with friends without the worry of pain.

I have been told that I can go privately however this will cost at least $5000 which is not feesible for my family. I understand this is not something people usually would fundraise for but the way I see it this illness has been affecting my life for at least 7 years and the sooner I can get some answers and on top of it the better. I really appreciate anything!!