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Raising money to honour Dominic and his wishes

$21,700 of $20,000 goal
Given by 193 generous donors in around 3 months

Raising money to honour Dominic and his wishes

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Dominic (aka Tolkien, Brother D, Abbo or simply Dom) is a brother, son, uncle, friend, kiwi, role model and inspiration.

He left New Zealand on his own accord to courageously fight for the freedom of the Ukrainian people. Our Dominic gave his life for what he believed was right; he is the ultimate example of bravery and determination. Nothing will ever fill the hole in our lives that he has left behind.

His heart stopped beating on Ukrainian soil in the middle of warfare and we have heard there have been many efforts to retrieve his body. Our family was informed when they do get him we will be charged with the cost of bringing him home. That cost is much larger than we expected. We have decided to create this page to provide an avenue if anyone felt the desire to help with the costs involved in this. It would be an incredible help and lift a little worry off our already burdened shoulders.

When we created this page a while ago, we paused it because we have been considering the reality of retrieving Dominic. As it turns out this is more difficult that expected and he might never return.

In his last interview Dominic expressed the importance of supporting Ukraine at this time. He said you can see the difference it makes. The more support, the better chance they have. So to honour his wish, once expenses for Dominic's return are paid, all money raised will be donated to help support humanitarian aid in Ukraine.

Thank you for your love at this time.

We love you Dominic.

Jessica Abelen's involvement (page creator)

We are Dominic's family.

Use of funds

The cost of retrieving Dom - otherwise it will be donated to a NZer called Tenby, founder of 'Kiwikare'. We will donate the money in support of his cause. Check it out here:

https://givealittle.co.nz/cause/kiwi-kare-ukraine-kiwi-aid-and-refugee-evacuation

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Latest update

Memorial  7 January 2023

Hi everyone.

We are looking at having a memorial/celebration of life for Dominic on Saturday the 18th of March (his birthday is on the 17th). If anyone here would like to attend, can you please get in touch via my email

jyabelen@gmail.com

We would love to have you all there ❤️

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Latest donations

Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 20 Nov 2022
$100
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 13 Oct 2022
Hope you're able to bring them back safely. Thinking of you and your family.
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Georgia
Georgia on 23 Sep 2022
Wishing you and your family all the love and support in bringing Dom home 💛💛
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Lisa - Greymouth
Lisa - Greymouth on 19 Sep 2022
Love to you all - catch up Soon xxxx
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Cake Art by Lekky
Cake Art by Lekky on 18 Sep 2022
Cupcakes fundraising from our family, friends and our local Wanganui- Manawatu-Rangitikei community. Rest In Peace Abbo
$701.50

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Created by, and paying to a verified bank account of, Jessica Abelen on behalf of Dominic Abelen and his family
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This campaign started on 28 Aug 2022 and ended on 28 Nov 2022.