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Help Lighten the Future for this Cancer Stricken Family

$13,699 of $90,000 goal
Given by 112 generous donors in over a year

To raise money for Dave Haimes and his family to help recover financially from unfunded Choroidal Melanoma treatment for Stage IV cancer.

Canterbury

When Dave found out he had aggressive Stage IV Choroidal Melanoma cancer, it came from nowhere. Dave (59) went from living a normal life with his wife Reecy, and children Grace (13) and Wolf (8) to finding he has metastatic tumours which affect his lower organs. Primarily the liver is affected, but also the kidneys.

Surgery has not been not an option, as surgery is likely to aggravate the situation by spreading the tumours. Chemotherapy is not effective for this type of cancer; radiotherapy, likewise.

Dave was offered the opportunity to trial Keytruda (Pembroizumab), however Keytruda is neither publicly nor privately funded for his particular type of melanoma in New Zealand. Statistically the success rate for treating metastatic Choroidal Melanoma with Keytruda is too low for it to meet the criteria for funding (there is a 1 in 10 chance of the treatment being effective). But given that Stage IV cancer is terminal, Dave felt he had no other option but to give it a go.

In spite of the odds, Dave has been one of the lucky ones. The Keytruda treatment has reduced the growth of tumours and halted the development of new ones. It has radically slowed the progress of the main 40mm x 32mm growth. The slowing down of that tumour is considered a win in terms of treatment. Without having had the Keytruda treatment, Dave would no longer be with us.

So far, Dave and Reecy have personally funded 14 treatments to the tune of $90,000 - by remortgaging the finance on their family home in South Brighton, Christchurch. While there has been some success with the treatment, Stage IV Choroidal Melanoma is terminal, there is no cure available for this type of cancer. Dave has been able to continue working as a carpenter, but as their future is uncertain, Reecy has been retraining fulltime as a radiographer. With Dave’s treatment and Reecy studying, the strain on their finances and day to day living is very real.

While Dave and Reecy have tried to keep daily family life as ‘normal’ as possible, the situation has at times been frustrating, overwhelming and challenging. With having two relatively young children, Dave hopes to see them through to adulthood, and Dave is determined to keep active with his kids and involved in his community.

Dave has been keeping a positive attitude, however, what lies ahead is yet to be seen in terms of Dave’s health. Reecy being left with the burden of debt from his treatment should he pass away, is of great concern to Dave.

Please consider supporting this husband, father, brother, colleague and friend, helping him to recover the cost of his treatment.

Shelley O'Connor's involvement (page creator)

I am a friend wanting to help out this awesome family who I love dearly. To say they have been through a lot lately, feels like an under-estimation. Please help out this wonderful team of four.

Use of funds

To recoup the $90,000 spent on Dave’s Keytruda treatments, by repaying that part of his mortgage.

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Still on Top of the Hill - Not Under It!  21 March 2022

Dave has just had his 30th dose of Keytruda, and is continuing his treatment every three weeks. Dave’s last results were optimistic - there was no noticeable increase in the size of his tumors. Apart from feeling zonked after his treatment Dave says he’s feeling “Fit as a flea” (whatever that means). He has been spending quality time with the kids (managed to kayak the wrong way from Christchurch City center for a couple of hours - kids not too impressed).

Dave says “In general I'm one lucky ol devil! Hope everyone out there is enjoying the company of loved ones and appreciating life in ol’ Aotearoa! Best wishes to all.”

We've decided to extend the Givealittle for another few months and Dave and Reecy are still needing support. Dave’s condition is stable - but not cured. Reecy has just started her third year of study.

Massive thanks to everyone who has supported them so far.

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Annie
Annie on 02 Apr 2022
Just a bit more from an MRT!
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Sarah and Alex
Sarah and Alex on 01 Mar 2022
I know this isn't a lot but hope it helps, love from your neighbours across the road. Xo
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This campaign started on 30 Mar 2021 and ended on 21 Jun 2022.