At 48, Mike faces aggressive myeloma; after treatment setbacks, his family seeks CAR T-cell therapy overseas for more time together.
West Melton, Canterbury
In late May 2025, our lives changed when my husband Mike, just 48, was diagnosed with multiple myeloma after what seemed like just a sore back. This incurable blood cancer is usually found in older people, making the news even more devastating. This was life altering news. Within weeks, Mike began chemotherapy, and in October he underwent a stem cell transplant. It was an incredibly tough time, with three weeks in hospital battling infections and complications, especially hard on our daughters, aged 19 and 15.
By January, things began to feel more normal again—Mike returned to work, our eldest daughter went back to university, and our youngest resumed school. But the relief was short-lived. Ongoing pain led to further scans in March, revealing a rare, aggressive form called non-secretory myeloma affecting his bones. Because it doesn’t show in blood tests, we had no idea he still had active disease.
Mike is now on the final treatment option available in New Zealand which our doctor doesn't think will work for long. Specialists have told us CAR T-cell therapy offers the best hope to extend his life. Unfortunately, this is not available here and the cost is far beyond our means. Treatment involves Mike & I being away for 7 weeks in Shanghai China.
We are determined to pursue it—for more time as a family, more milestones, and more memories—and are deeply grateful for any support to help make that possible.
Mike is my husband.
All donations go toward CAR-T therapy treatment costs in China. If we don't raise the amount needed for Car-T, funds will be used for alternate non-funded blood cancer drugs.
Back home 21 June 2026
Our time in the Chinese medical system in Shanghai was an eye-opening experience.
Car-t therapy is amazing - in terms technology and what can be done to the human body. After a bunch of tests, my t-cells were harvested and sent to Beijing for genetic re-programming. I then had a week of chemo and radiotherapy before my newly trained cells were re-infused. I had a fever for four days which meant things were working with expansion raising to 34% of total t-cells. Almost immediately my myeloma markers started to come down, in fact to ‘normal’ levels, meaning the t-cells were doing their thing and attacking cancer. On discharge from Liquan, doctors did a bone marrow biopsy (ouch!) and they couldn't find a trace of disease.
The final two weeks was waiting for final check up's. We did some touristy things around Shanghai - which is an amazing and beautiful city - and rested up.
It's great to be back home and in summary, my disease is currently 'suppressed'.
Finaly - and most importantly - I want to extend a big thank you from me, Nicky and my girls for your support to help make this happen.
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