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Helping my father overcome his mental health and addiction issues

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Helping my father overcome his mental health and addiction issues through a journey of hope.

Wellington, Kapiti Coast District

Hi, my name is Valera. My Mother and I are raising money for my father, below is his story:

Hīkoi of Hope: My Walk Towards Healing and Change.

Kia ora, my name is Josh I just turned 46. I’ve spent 30 years battling alcohol addiction. Despite working in mental health, disability, and peer youth services, my struggles remain unresolved. Recently, I had to step down from my job at a bakery due to my mental health challenges needing to find a path of healing.

My wife left Russia for a better life, and we have built a loving family. Even with her support and her studies in mental health and addiction, I haven’t been able to overcome my mental health and addiction issues. Rehab costs are out of reach starting from approximately $25,000 for four weeks, so instead we as a family came up with an idea: Hīkoi of Hope.

This journey will take me into New Zealand’s wilderness, where I’ll seek peace, clarity, and healing. I plan to stay in two remote huts on the South Island, spending time in nature and possibly volunteering in conservation efforts. My goal is to reconnect with myself and share my experiences to raise awareness about addiction and mental health challenges.

I’m reaching out for support to cover the basic costs of food, warm clothing, camping gear, and transport like bus tickets. Your contributions will help make this journey possible and bring hope to others facing similar battles. Any support, through donations or sharing this page, would mean the world.

Ngā mihi nui

Josh

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Valera Bonyushkin's involvement (page creator)

Josh is my stepfather who I have lived with for 8 years. He's taught me lots of hands-on skills, lawn-mowing, coffee-making, and gardening, which perfectly helps me who likes to learn online and skills that use your brain, not your body.

Use of funds

All the money will go towards my father's journey of hope and recovery, sharing his experience of addiction and mental health (basic costs of food, warm clothing, camping gear, and transport like bus tickets) If there is more money than needed, the excess will go back towards other people's needs on Givealittle.

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Grateful for your support on the hikoi of hope - 5 1/2 weeks sober and growing stronger  4 November 2024

Kia ora everyone,

Thank you all for the incredible support and generosity you’ve shown through the Givealittle page. Every donation and message of encouragement fuels my journey on the Hīkoi of Hope, and knowing that people believe in me has helped me with my purpose.

I’m proud to share that I’ve been sober for about 5 1/2 weeks now—a milestone that fills me with deep gratitude. The journey has been challenging but profoundly rewarding, and each step reinforces my commitment to sobriety and healing.

Recently, I spent a week hiking in the beautiful Mount Somers area, staying in the Woolshed and Pinnacles Huts, immersed in nature’s beauty. I left just in time to avoid snow and made my way to Hokitika, where I’m now based in a friend’s cabin with solar power and a lovely view of Lake Mudgie. This peaceful part of the West Coast has been grounding and rejuvenating, a perfect place to focus on maintaining my sobriety.

At 5 1/2 weeks sober, I’m motivated to keep sharing my experiences, hoping they offer strength to others facing similar challenges. Your support is a vital part of this journey, and I can’t thank you enough.

Please stay tuned for more updates, moments from the road, and stories shaping my recovery. I’m incredibly grateful to have you alongside me.

Nga mihi nui,

Josh Woodgate-Jackson

021 129 6202

hikoi4hope@gmail.com

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Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 14 Oct 2024
All the best Josh. One step at a time
$20
Valera Bonyushkin

Thank you so much! This is absolutely a crucial step for him!

Valera Bonyushkin
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 14 Oct 2024
All the best Josh :)
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Valera Bonyushkin

Thank you so much! He's going to win this one for sure.

Valera Bonyushkin
Raewyn
Raewyn on 14 Oct 2024
Thinking of you Josh.
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Valera Bonyushkin

Thank you Raewyn, he's going to be able to live a much better life now once he's free from alcohol. I'm sure this is the one.

Valera Bonyushkin
Jen
Jen on 13 Oct 2024
Kia kaha I hear ya. Wishing you find your spiritual path and meet some great people in recovery along the way. It is wonderful living a sober life. You absolutely can if I can! What a loving son you have. Sorry I can't give more
$11
Valera Bonyushkin

No, thank you so much. Anything is enough and brings us closer to our goal. Nga mihi nui.

Valera Bonyushkin
Vance
Vance on 13 Oct 2024
Sounds like a good dad, hang tough…
$50
Valera Bonyushkin

He is the best dad I could wish for :)

Valera Bonyushkin

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This campaign started on 1 Oct 2024 and ended on 1 Oct 2025.