Helping support our whānau through amputation surgery, rehabilitation, and the financial pressure that comes with rebuilding our new normal.
Newtown, Wellington
Kia ora friends and whānau,
Next week I’ll be going through major surgery, amputating my left foot below the knee, followed by a long recovery period over the coming months that will significantly affect my already limited mobility, our day-to-day family life, and our ability to do almost anything resembling “normal” for quite a while.
After a lot of hesitation — and plenty of encouragement from friends — we’ve decided to create this page because a number of people have asked how they can help support us through it.
Recovery brings a lot more than hospital appointments. For us, it means navigating months of reduced mobility on top of existing challenges, while trying to keep family life functioning as normally as possible.
We’ll get through this, but any support would genuinely help relieve some of that pressure and allow us to focus more energy on recovery and family during the months ahead.
Whether that’s through donating, sharing the page, or simply checking in, we’re incredibly grateful.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and for supporting us through a challenging chapter in a ridiculously difficult book.
Humphrey, Naoko & Reiha
(and Whisky & Rocky!)
Reduced income during recovery, transport to medical appointments, childcare, accessibility adjustments, rehabilitation costs, and helping keep everyday family life stable while we adapt to a new normal.
Yesterday's carefully planned “let’s make some wholesome Dad memories before surgery” adventure got slightly rewritten by the universe. 13 May 2026
Instead we got:
- a broken tooth that needed an emergency dentist appointment (me)
- a daycare virus (the tiny one)
- almost no sleep
- and a tiny hurricane child operating entirely on popsicles and at about the level of a gentle breeze compared to her usual chaos and destruction
Honestly though? Still a great day.
The tiny one decided the best use of morning was becoming the tallest person in the family by riding around on Dada’s shoulders like some tiny exhausted emperor surveying her kingdom.
We didn’t make it out on some big meaningful adventure.
No magical family road trip montage.
No emotional sunset moment.
Just a day hanging out in the lounge watching kids programs and contemplating how ridiculous life can be sometimes.
And honestly, that’s probably the stuff we remember anyway ❤️
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