To support Laura Robson in achieving her goals and living life to its fullest.
Wellington
This page is run by Laura's family to support Laura achieving her goals and living life to its fullest.
This is a place where friends, family, colleagues and supporters can pull funds together to help Laura seek alternative treatment and live out her bucket list.
At just 26 years old Laura was given the news that she has terminal cancer.
Laura refuses to be a statistic instead she is remaining positive and being an outlier.
Please support us to raise as much funds as possible so that the question of 'money' is never a reason why Laura can't complete her bucket list.
Below is a post from Laura's personal blog in her own words.
HALFWAY TO TERMINAL
May 9, 2017
Today we had one of the more frank discussions with my Oncologist. Originally we went in there to talk about going on a break from treatment *Yay* but things quickly turned to my prognosis and if there was any chance in the future of starting a family.
Essentially the answer is no. The likelihood of me being able to get pregnant is low and the likelihood of both is us being able to make it to full term is low.
Also what sort of life would that baby have. We would be bringing life into this world, however I may not be able to be apart of it.
It could even turn into, it’s me or the baby.
Is that fair on the baby to be raised with out a mother? For Jeremy to have to raise it by himself would be a hard task. And to have that constant reminder…
And my prognosis has not changed.
The average life expectancy of someone with my type of cancer is 1 to 2 years, and I am just about to hit the 1 year anniversary of my diagnosis. So based on averages I have a year left.
1 stinking year left.
But I’m going to be the outlier.
The one that doesn’t fit with what the average is. Who sticks out like a sore thumb and refuses to give up.
There’s nothing much else I can do except that!
And if I do have one year left, help me make a bucket list.
I’m only 27, have travelled a little but never really lived an exciting, adventure filled life.
I haven’t done an OE, I’ve only just brought my own car, I haven’t experienced any ‘Wonders of the World’
Help me to pack that into this last year, please?
At the top of my list:
– Get Married – Done
– Buy a house – Done
– Adopt fur babies – Done
– HONEYMOON!!! – In progress!!
Help me fill in the rest.
Hi my name is Emma and Laura and I have been friends all our lives. We consider each other family. Along with her sister Catherine we will be running this page as well as an array of fundraisers to support Laura in any way that we can. Thank you so much for your love and support.
The funds raised will be used by Laura Robson (Brennand) to live out her bucket list and/or seek alternative treatments.
Expiry dates 7 October 2017
It’s been a wee while since I shared with everyone.
Time to download what has happened.
I got a tattoo!
Well that was last post, but at the beginning of the month my sister, Mum and I got tattoos!
Another item to tick off my post chemo list!
I had a checkup with my doctor.
And a scan in August.
Everything is tracking along well, no new tumors or growths.
Check up in 6 weeks time.
That’s how my life is measured now a days.
By intermittent doctors visits.
A big thing this last month was meeting with my Cancer Society NZ councillor. It’s a great service provided free by the Cancer Society.
Dear hubby and I sat down with my councillor and talked through my end of life plan and funeral.
“Fun-er-al”
Apparently it’s a tool to help us deal with what is coming and to iron out any areas of possible conflict.
I was able to say what I wanted and how I wanted it done, which is far luckier than some people get.
I even went as far as saying what songs I wanted played.
Not something a typical newly married couple has to deal with in the first year of marriage.
But we plod along and keep fighting.
Next month is our first wedding anniversary!
The doctors had small goals for my chemo, make me well enough to attend my own wedding!
That came and went.
Next was to get me on my honeymoon.
That also came and went.
So what was next?
Now I have to make my own goals.
It’s amazing we have made it this far. I don’t mean anything negative about our relationship.
As Christmas approaches, we come up against another herdal.
My expiry date is approaching.
Doctors told me in June 2016 I had 1 to 2 years I live.
My case was terminal, stage four.
June next year (8 months away) is two years since I was told that.
If I manage to make it past that date, how do you love knowing that at any moment it could be taken away?
Living each day as if it was a new day? Or as if it was your last?
I’m grappling with that right now.
How would you deal with it?
Laura Robson.
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