Medically induced menopause for the past 7years - enough is enough!

$11,020 of $18,000 goal
Given by 208 generous donors in around 5 months

I very rarely ask for help but am utterly desperate for a better quality of life - The health system has left me hanging!

Canterbury

For the past 16 years I have quietly dealt with a lot of health blows that most women wouldn’t want to think about let alone talk about!

At the age of 16 it was dicovered during an investigative scan of my kidneys that I had a very large growth on my left ovary. Within a few days I underwent surgery to remove it. During surgery the growth was found to be 19cm in diameter and 3kgs in weight but thankfully histology showed it was a benign cyst.

Unfortunately the ovarian cysts continued to appear time after time and I was eventually diagnosed as having Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) at around the age of 18.

By the age of 21 my body and hormones were not reacting to the PCOS treatment like they should have and I ended up in hospital in 2009 requiring an emergency 2unit blood transfusion as my periods had become so prolonged that I actually came close to having bled to death.

After this I was seen again by the gynae department and underwent D&C’s and hysteroscopies and had two attempts at an IUD Mirena which over a few years were both very unsuccessful for me.

More scans lead to the diagnosis in 2012 of Adenomyosis on top of the PCOS. It was at this time doctors decided that I, (then 24 years old) would need to begin on hormone therapy to effectively put my body into medically induced menopause.

I have battled on since, in medically induced menopause for the past 7 years unsure of what my future might have to hold. It wasn’t until after some unusual symptoms developed in mid 2019 that I (now aged 31) started asking questions.

Over the past 6months referrals for me to the ChCh women’s hospital gynaecology department were declined 3 times. (One of those referrals was even made by the Acute Gynae Assessment Service while I was actually in hospital with my symptoms.)

I was incredibly fortunate to find a limited one off funding source to fund one appointment with a private gynaecologist.

I had this appointment in early December 2019 where I could ask all of the questions and raise all of my concerns as I had done previously in various letters to the public gynaecology system.

I got answers! I found out:

- I have been taking an unusually large dose of hormones for the past 7 years

- These hormones are typically only used as a short term solution

- There is no research undertaken on women who have taken these hormones as long as I have so therefore there is no way of knowing the side-effects or risks that may have developed during, or may develop after the prolonged use of these hormones

The private gynaecologist strongly recommended that I do not withdraw off the hormone medications right now as there are real concerns that the heavy bleeding will return and could in fact be a very real risk to my life once more as it was in 2009.

The private gynaecologist strongly agreed that the very best outcome for me would be for me to have a hysterectomy (in his words “she likely is riddled with undiagnosed Endometriosis”) and therefore can only then stop taking the hormone therapy (which consists of 5 tablets a day!)

The gynaecologist felt the accumulative effect of the large dose of hormones may also be causing some of my significant health issues that I’m struggling with at present (I.e chronic fatigue.) He also said he felt the surgery would have great benefits for me and will greatly improve my quality of life.

The problem now is trying to get back into the public system where so far they have refused to see me, let alone answer any of my questions or concerns which I have written to them directly about. Then there is all of the waiting!

For the surgery to be done privately with the gynaecologist that I saw, it would cost at least $20,000 which I have absolutely no way to fund. This is why this page has been set up.

Use of funds

My target is $25,000 and if I reach my goal and surgery is paid for, anything left will be donated to Talk Peach Gynaecological Foundation of New Zealand.

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3 months post-op  26 August 2020

Just a quick update and another chance to express my sincere thanks.

I’ve made it past the three month mark, it has had its moments but I remain eternally grateful for all of the support given by so many kind people!

There have been a few bumps on the road with post op wound infections etc but there are real moments when I continue to be so amazed and very humbled at having had this surgery done (such as not having the constant back ache and dreary fatigue cloud that became my companion!)

I just want to take a moment to particularly thank a few people:

Oliver Lewis from The Press for telling my story so respectfully and including my givealittle page; my surgeon Dr Mike East; Sue Stanley and their team at Oxford Women's Health Centre; My anaesthetist Alistair Gibson; the teams at St George’s Hospital - especially nurses Maddie and Jenny; and last of all but definitely not least, YOU - everyone that donated, sent messages and shared my article and givealittle page tirelessly and got me to this point now!

Thank you really isn’t enough but words do not express the gratitude I have for all of this.

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Jo
Jo on 13 May 2020
I'm disgusted in the system and how you have suffered. I wish I could give more. So happy you have had the surgery tho. Praying for a fast and great recovery.
$20
Keryn Densem

Thank you so much for your message of support and of course for your donation. Ever dollar really counts so I thank you with all my heart for making a donation to help me

Keryn Densem
Julie
Julie on 12 May 2020
Wishing you a speedy recovery!
$45
Keryn Densem

Thank you so much for your generous donation, it truly means so much to me!

Keryn Densem
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Guest Donor on 12 May 2020
We're so pleased you've had the surgery, Keryn, after all these years of struggle and pain. You're a kind, loving person and now you can truly be yourself. Love to you from us.
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Keryn Densem

Thank you both so very much for your very generous donation! This truly means the world to me! Sending love right back to you both xx

Keryn Densem
Sue
Sue on 04 May 2020
Great to hear your surgery is going ahead soon - Good Luck with the whole process.
$10
Keryn Densem

Thank you so much, it really does mean so much to me.

Keryn Densem
nicola
nicola on 12 Apr 2020
$50
Keryn Densem

Thank you so very much for your support, it means so much to me.

Keryn Densem

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This campaign started on 10 Dec 2019 and ended on 19 May 2020.