Our dearest Mary is facing every parent’s worst nightmare. On January 6th, Mary was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour.

Mary is a devoted mum to three beautiful children, aged 6, 9 and 11. She is the kind of mum, wife and friend (and veterinarian) who makes everyone feel deeply loved, always putting others first.

The brain tumour is large, located in a critical area of her brain, and there are multiple tumours already. We are awaiting biopsy results, everything has happened very fast and the shock is still settling in. Time is critical.

We are urgently trying to raise funds to give Mary every possible option in her fight, including access to specialised unfunded treatments and clinical trials in New Zealand and overseas. We are hopeful that Mary may be able to travel to Berlin if this becomes an option. These opportunities are time sensitive and costly, and not available through the public health system.

Mary’s wishes are heartbreakingly simple. To spend as many nights as possible cuddling her babies, to feel the water on her skin, to breathe in the sea air, and to soak up every moment of love.

This is incredibly difficult for Mary to process. We know many of you will want to reach out to her. At this stage, it is simply too much for Mary to manage, so we kindly ask that her wishes to not be contacted directly are respected. Please message Hayden or myself, or leave a message here.

Every donation, no matter the size, will make a real and immediate difference. Your kindness will help give Mary options, time, and security for her children. Thank you for your love, generosity and support.