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Stephanie urgently needs a hip operation.

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I urgently need a hip operation. I have already been waiting a year to see the specialist, before I can even get on the hip-op waiting list.

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Dear family, friends and colleagues,

I’m asking for your help. I was diagnosed with severe osteoarthritis in my left hip in January ‘23. Despite 3 Doctor’s referrals, 1 Physiotherapist’s referral, 1 orthopaedic surgeon’s referral, I am categorised as “Level 3” ie “not urgent” and I have been waiting nearly a year to see a specialist. Only after that can I get on the waiting list for hip surgery.

If I wait another year, which is a possibility given the current long waiting lists for hospital surgeries, I will be in a wheelchair and a burden for someone to look after – and cost the tax-payer more for disability support.

My condition has deteriorated significantly this year while just waiting for the specialist appointment. I’m having increasing difficulty walking, getting in and out of a car, doing the garden and home maintenance tasks. I have had to put on hold my community service work as a marriage and funeral celebrant.

So I have made the decision to try for support from my wide network of family, friends and colleagues. It is not easy asking for help, when you are used to being independent.

I know I have been a giving person throughout my life, as I was raised to be, through my music teaching and community service work. So maybe, just maybe, I might have clocked up some good karma and there’s no harm in giving this a go! I am ever hopeful.

I need $27,000 for a hip replacement operation in a private hospital.

I am deeply grateful for any donation anyone can make.

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A hip replacement operation in a private hospital.

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Final Update dear friends and whanau  14 May 2024

This is just to let you know that everything has gone very well since my hip operation four months ago. The physical healing has been accompanied by new energy and 'joie de vivre' - as everything is interconnected. I will always be deeply grateful for your kind support. Kindness is what helps us all get through the ups and downs of life. I call my left hip a "community hip". My right hip however has been 'playing up' and will, down the track, become a "public hip" as I am now on the "semi-urgent" waiting list to see a specialist pre-op.

The staff at Mercy Hospital were all fantastic and to keep my mind off things, I wrote a booklet of 20 limericks, one for every staff member. This was well received and the Hospital Manager wrote me a limerick in reply! He wrote

"Thank you for the effort you have put into this and the thoughtfulness behind it. We have shared it with all of our staff and Mr Munro, I’m sure those you have mentioned will be delighted. It is wonderful to know they are appreciated and you took the effort to learn about them all.

...Thank you for the creative way you have thanked us!

I should probably end with a Limerick about you as a patient…

To Mercy Stephanie came,

Her leg was making her lame

We gave her some care

With our usual flair

And now she’s back on her game.

On that note, dear family and friends, wishing you all many blessings and kindnesses in your lives, Steph x

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Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 31 Dec 2023
$1,000
Stephanie McKee

Dear anonymous generous donor, how can I thank you enough, you've got a radiant heart of gold, and let it be told, may kindness and goodness knock often at your door, in this new unknown year of 2024!

Stephanie McKee
Freda
Freda on 31 Dec 2023
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$100
Stephanie McKee

Thank you dear Freda, super kind of you. This journey of receiving so much support and generosity has been very humbling. See you at my dancy party next summer with bells on! xxxx

Stephanie McKee
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 26 Dec 2023
$500
Stephanie McKee

Thank you so much for your generosity and support. May the cycle of karma wrap your life in kindness.

Stephanie McKee
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Private Donor on 18 Dec 2023
Woohoo!
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Guest Donor on 18 Dec 2023
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Stephanie McKee

Oh wow, That is soooooooo kind of you dear friends. May you receive a thousand kindnesses every day !

Stephanie McKee

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This campaign started on 11 Nov 2023 and ended on 31 Dec 2023.